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Do you find the opposite sex attractive?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by RainbowsFactory, Dec 23, 2016.

  1. Daydreamer1

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    Well see, being trans makes that tricky.

    Is this referring to men because of my birth situation or women because I am a guy. Well, then again, the whole question is a bit complicated because of non-binary people. But I'll run with it.

    I identify as queer in general, so I find a lot of people across the board to be attractive. While my preference doesn't switch back and forth, it does fluctuate. For a while, I was mainly leaning to one side, but now I'm back somewhere in the middle of sorts. For me, my attraction to other people only goes as far as thinking the person is beautiful or handsome (both physically and qualities about them as a person; like their personality); but it's never anything sexual--which I only experience with my partner.
     
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    Being a trans does make it tricky.. I find any gender attractive really, though.
     
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    If you mean the opposite sex in general sexually attractive, no. I do happen to have a BF but I can't say it's his physical appearance that I am attracted to. He doesn't look that different than any other guy. It's like I'm attracted to him in spite of him being a guy instead of because of it. I still find women desirable, even though I'm not currently dating one.
     
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    no i don't.. i really can't see what all my friends find so attractive on guys..
    of course i don't mean that men are ugly! they can be handsome but i can't relate to the feeling of the desire to kiss a guy or having a relationship with a guy and all that stuff.. just no.. i can't do it!
     
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    I do, actually. Leonardo DiCaprio in his younger days is my male crush. I also have an odd attraction to Jason Momoa from GoT.
    [​IMG]

    My problem is, I'd get bored with men since I know there are sexy women in this world. :grin:

    ...like Anna Torv and Diane Neal. :icon_redf
     
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    Definitely. However, I can't become excited the way I become excited over a boy or man I am attracted to.
     
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    well, I am male who is into males. but, when it comes to purely aesthetic attraction, some women - particularly those who belong to alternative subcultures - are really, really attractive to me.
     
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    physically and sexually no, but I will never pass the opportunity of telling a lady how pretty she looks. Woman need to know they are beautiful inside and out.
     
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    Sexually no. But I can appreciate female beauty and on average I believe girls are better looking than the average of men.
     
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    Women are attractive, but I just can't see myself being in a relationship like that with them. I like guys much more.
     
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    I can recognize beauty in women but when it comes to relationships, nope.
     
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    I can see the beauty in a feminine body, but I have no desire to fornicate with them (probably under certain circumstances) nor do I see me being romantically attracted to them.
     
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    Aesthetically, but not sexually.
     
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    Sometimes, men are pretty. Not as pretty as girls, but still, very nice looking. [​IMG]
    Such as this person.
     
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    Yes. Usually, they're my type when it happens.
     
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    Sometimes. I prefer the same sex. I've had female partners, but I find women difficult to get along with.
     
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    Huh sometimes I find some guys cute or above the average, but I don't think much about it since they don't attract me l :')
    But u know, being gay doesn't mean you can't perceive beauty in any shape
     
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    Well, I am homoflexible, so I do get attraction to girls once in a while. It's quite weird. I'll be feeling androphillic as usual, and then, a girl comes along and makes me feel warm and happy like I do when I enjoy the company of a male or am attracted to one. I'm just like: "Woah, do I really like her or something?" :confused:
     
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    Depending on the person and the monthly occasion, sexually, yes. Aesthetically, rarely so.
     
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    I dont really find girls sexually attractive at all. Ive always found guys way more physically attractive and emotionally.