I'm gay, but I'm not blind. There is no shame in a gay man admitting that some women are very pretty. Does it mean I find women "attractive"? No, that's not a word I would use and a woman will never float my boat in the same way as a guy can, but it would be ridiculous to say that I find all women ugly or repellent. To those people who are questioning, or anxious about this issue there may be some reassurance in reading the responses to this thread. We don't need to adopt an all or nothing mentality about our sexuality. All of this is very reasonable and normal.