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body types + body hair

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by merry, May 26, 2018.

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do you prefer your partner be shaved

  1. legs must be

    1 vote(s)
    3.1%
  2. armpits must be

    5 vote(s)
    15.6%
  3. arms and/or chest

    2 vote(s)
    6.3%
  4. “bikini” area (male, female, other)

    2 vote(s)
    6.3%
  5. other (explain below if you’d like)

    4 vote(s)
    12.5%
  6. don’t mind the natural body hair

    21 vote(s)
    65.6%
Multiple votes are allowed.
  1. Monocyte

    Monocyte New Member

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    Interesting conversation you’ve got here! Lemme add my input.
    • Female
    • Queer
    • Short, still losing a lil baby fat, healthy. Pear-shaped with small boobs.
    • In girls: taller girls. Any body shape (pear, straight, apple, hourglass, etc) is fine by me. Nice hands. Brown eyes.
    • In guys: short-ish guys, a little bit chubbier, “cute” body type like a huggable teddy bear (not necessarily stereotypical “hot”). A nice smile.
    • Depends on the season. I shave my legs about twice or three times a months, maybe more if shorts are in order. I try to keep my armpits hairless all year-round. I sometimes remove my pubic hair with hair-removal cream, but only once in a new moon.
    • Shaved armpits is the only “must-have” - it consider it a sanitary thing for both genders. For guys, I like little ######, but it’s not a requirement. For girls, I’m fine with the natural leg hair, but I wouldn’t mind the occasional shave. As for pubic hair, I’ll have to decide after I lose my virginity. I’m not terribly picky.
     
  2. Ruby Dragon

    Ruby Dragon Well-Known Member

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    Body types:

    Women:

    • Average build, though a bit of chubbiness is ok
    • Shorter than me
    • Long hair, any colour
    • Bright eyes, any colour
    • Nice smile
    • Must shave wherever possible (Legs, underarms, bikini area)
    Men:

    • Bigger build (Beer belly is a bonus, but not overly big)
    • Taller than me, or at least the same height
    • Short hair, any colour though I prefer darker hair
    • Bright eyes, any colour
    • Nice smile
    • Body hairs can be kept however they wish, though I don't like overly hairy guys. Some chest hairs is fine, but no hairy backs. Hairy backs are a big turn-off for me
     
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  3. Nachtmahr

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    •your gender
    Male
    •sexuality (or best described who you are attracted to)
    Gay
    •your body type
    6ft; Average
    •body type you are attracted to
    I certainly like muscle and a well defined body but who doesn’t? However this does not define who I will find attractive. Just because someone has muscles doesn’t automatically make him attractive to me at all. I can find many different body types attractive because the body type alone isn’t what is determining that. More so the overall image, interplay and appeal of his features, with the face being most important, are actually the key for me lookwise. The exceptions are unhealthy extremes (anorexia; obesity etc.) those I just can’t find anything physically attractive or aesthetic about at all.
    •the state of your body hair
    Present! I have body hair and trim it to keep it in place and order where that's needed as I like a well groomed appearance, I wouldn’t shave it off though. I also have a beard. Exceptions: Armpits. I shave the armpit hair off whenever it grows longer than just stubble.
    •body hair preference on your partner or perspective romance
    I like body hair on other men too when it’s well kept and groomed! That I like men with body hair doesn’t mean that I would mind a guy who shaved his chest as guys with a shaved chest and just a happy trail for instance can look just as attractive to me.
    What I personally don’t find appealing because it looks just odd in my eyes are guys who shave all of their body hair off completely especially when men shave their legs and arm hair. I don't really get it! It’s also something I associate with femininity and I am attracted to masculinity.
     
  4. Aberrance

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    •your gender - male
    •sexuality (or best described who you are attracted to) - gay
    •your body type - very thin, 5'5
    •body type you are attracted to - rugged, stocky guys preferably taller than me
    •the state of your body hair - hairy, my hair grows quite long too
    •body hair preference on your partner or perspective romance - not really fussed but my boyfriend is hairy and I love it
     
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  5. Sepina

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    Dude
    Gay (Mostly)
    Shorter than your average bloke, sort of skinny and sort of fat.
    I like all body types,
    Not very hairy, except in your usual places.
    I don't mind body hair at all, as long as they're hygienic
     
  6. Sepina

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    I mean my boyfriend isn't too hairy but w/e lol