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body types + body hair

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by merry, May 26, 2018.

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do you prefer your partner be shaved

  1. legs must be

    1 vote(s)
    3.1%
  2. armpits must be

    5 vote(s)
    15.6%
  3. arms and/or chest

    2 vote(s)
    6.3%
  4. “bikini” area (male, female, other)

    2 vote(s)
    6.3%
  5. other (explain below if you’d like)

    4 vote(s)
    12.5%
  6. don’t mind the natural body hair

    21 vote(s)
    65.6%
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  1. merry

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    do you have a specific body type you are attracted to?

    would you share below..

    •your gender
    •sexuality (or best described who you are attracted to)
    •your body type
    •body type you are attracted to
    •the state of your body hair
    •body hair preference on your partner or perspective romance

    thank you for your input!
     
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    Short and skinny but with some muscle
    People bigger than me mostly, muscles help but aren't a big deal
    Shaved chest, trimmed other places
    I don't really have much of a preference for most places but a shaved chest looks good to me on a guy.
     
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    I like body hair on guys. I don't mind if it's trimmed to keep it neat, but I don't really understand the fascination with shaving it all off. I wouldn't shave myself and I'm fairly hairy.

    The only reason I haven't grown my beard is because the other half likes me clean shaven. I still get lazy sometimes though. :slight_smile:
     
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    Tall-ish broad shoulders thin waist wide hips long legs. Hopefully looks better than it sounds.

    I usually like people that are taller and muscle doesn’t hurt at all. Although whether or not I’m attracted to someone is mostly up to their personality and interests.

    Just trimmed in various places.

    Just trimmed in various places.
     
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    i’m a lady
    bisexual
    petite, and a little curvy with tattoos and a few piercings
    i like most all body types
    i don’t shave
    i don’t mind if a partner has shaved or not, and even prefer a man with a beard

    this was my first time creating a poll and i apologize i don’t believe i made the results public, if i figure out how i will share them.
     
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    Looks like the results can be seen.
     
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    Curvaceous for women
    Rock hard for men
    I like men with beards but prefer a smooth chest
    I don’t really have a preference for pubic hair. Mine is natural
     
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    Female

    Bisexual

    Skinny

    Medium size

    Hair on underarms and "down there" shave as needed, not much hair on arms or legs no shaving needed

    Close shave, light hair.
     
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    •gender--male/genderqueer
    •your sexuality--bisexual
    •your body type--flabby
    •body type you are attracted to--male: slender, female: slender to curvy
    •the state of your body hair--I like to keep chest and belly are shaved, I'm probably below average in the amount of natural occurring body hair.
    •body hair preference on your partner or perspective romance--male: just not too hairy, female: I've never really seen a woman with hairy legs, so I'd reserve my judgement until then, but I'm open to the possibility.
     
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    •trans boy
    •pansexual
    •tall, skinny very little muscle
    •preferably shorter/smaller than me
    •I used to shave, but I haven't for a long time
    •It really depends on the gender for me. When it's a girl, legs would preferably be shaved. If it's a dude, I really don't care.
     
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    Femme woman
    Queer
    Short, small
    Same height maybe a bit taller
    I am attracted to soft butches (I finally found the *exact* type: Jennifer Knapp)
    I don’t have a preference. It’s her body so...
    For me, due to my ancestry I have to shave and keep up or my hair is Seymour from Little Shop of Horrors.
     
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    First of all great question! I love reading threads like these because I love seeing other people's preferences.
    Female
    Bisexual
    Thin, but not very thin. Not curvy, but I do have a medium chest size and some hips. I have a recognizably feminine body, but in a very average way.
    For men: Slender men who are not bulky, not into lots of muscle. Toned is good, but not a gym rat. Like guys who aren't too tall. I like lithe and fit men.
    For women, small and slender as well, small breasts, nice hips and waist. Athletic type body, but soft at the same time.
    I shave my armpits and and most of my legs. I don't shave my bikini area. I have attempted to, and that ended up not being comfortable at all so I don't now. I certainly will trim though and make it as tidy as I can. For this reason I also don't expect my partner, male or female, to be bare in the pubic region. I am honestly not bothered at all by hair down there, I think it's entirely natural and not at all gross. I do like shaved armpits on men and women, and also shaved legs, both on men and women. I am not fussy though and certainly don't expect it to be freshly shaved daily or anything like that. A little bit of hair here and there, a few places missed, or even if they just did a quickie and trimmed only the bare minimum it's all good. I am not a stickler with body hair. Pretty low on my list of priorities. Unless there is an excessive amount of hair it would take a great deal for me to be bothered. My one nonnegotiable thing is a smooth face for males. I do not want any stubble feeling when I kiss or touch their face. That is all I need though. If your face is clean and you periodically trim and maintain other areas we're all good.
     
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    •your gender
    Male~

    •sexuality (or best described who you are attracted to)
    GAY

    •your body type
    Pretty lean, or pretty and lean (;

    •body type you are attracted to
    Varies, usually thinner guys or some muscle is good too

    •the state of your body hair
    Trimmed

    •body hair preference on your partner or perspective romance
    Don't care as long as he has good personal hygeine
     
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    should say prefers woman as she is *or man with beard.
     
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    thank you all for sharing! i am digging the diversity here.
     
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    •Basically a bear/cub (Large and hairy)
    •Larger guys whether they have muscles or they're chubby
    •All natural everywhere short of facial hair, I do shave that off every now and then.
    •I could take it or leave it honestly, I'm more concerned with if what my partner prefers as long as he's hygienic.
     
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    I chose other because I much prefer the guy having body hair.

    I rarely shave anything (just my face). I trim downstairs, but otherwise, I'm a hairy mofo. Honestly, I think I'd feel sad if my partner had no body hair. Must be hard to maintain, too.
     
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    I'm a girl, femme lesbian, i'm short, mostly average proportions
    I'm not attracted to one specific body type, i shave my armpits and sometimes legs
    honestly i don't really care about hair as long as you're clean