So I went to a local bear bar last night for karaoke. Sadly, there wasn't much in the way of seating, so I sat in the back along the wall until a table opened up. (At this point, I should say that I'm very much as introvert and this was fine. I was there to sing!) So I sat and drank my pint and was on my phone when this older guy (8 years older) came by on his way to the restroom and patted me on the shoulder and said, "handsome man!" -- I was flattered, as you can imagine. He came back home and asked what I was going to sing, then invited me to sit with him and his husband. I figured, why not, and joined them. Well, the dude was very touchy feely and was totally love-bombing me, paying me compliments, rubbing my leg, etc -- clearly, he and his husband are not strict monogamists (which is fine) -- and he kept talking about how we should get together and jam (he showed me pictures of his guitars), and that we could all get naked afterwards. I was like, um, yeah, that could be fun -- and in my mind I'm like, I don't even know you! And then asking if I'd been to the gay resort about a couple of hours north, and that we could all go together -- and I'm like, um, no. Which of course didn't stop me from kissing him back after the second beer kicked in, especially after he was laying it on so thick, "I mean, they must have taken you out back and hit you with the handsome stick! They left you for dead!" But when they left, I was so relieved. It was fun to have that much attention paid to me, but it made me uncomfortable -- he wasn't my type, he wasn't a good kisser (I mean, I'm all for tongue, but good lord), and I really prefer to be approached less directly. And I'm not interested in being someone's boy toy, especially not at my age, haha. I guess I'm a little irritated with myself for not extricating myself from the situation at the first signs of feeling uncomfortable. It definitely felt more creepy today than it did last night.