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Being hit on at the bear bar

Discussion in 'LGBT Later in Life' started by spartafc, May 14, 2018.

  1. Niagara

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    My best friend in middle and high school used to do stuff like this. I never questioned it but now I'm very curious whether he was interested in me. He would show me porn on his phone sometimes, a few times he said he was going to go to the bathroom to masturbate and invited me to come with him and we could talk while we did it (we really ended up doing that too), and finally during the last month of school in the last year we went to school together he showed me some nude pictures of himself that he had on his phone for some reason. I didn't ask for any of that, it was all his suggestions.

    I've recently started talking to him again after not talking to each other for 6 years too... I'm not sure if there's any way to ask him about it without freaking him out.
     
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