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Aww I'm so so happy I've joined

Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by Philbrum1815, Feb 9, 2024.

  1. Philbrum1815

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    Hi everyone. I tried to join this site a month ago and didn't work on my phone. Tried again today and it works . I'm so happy .

    It's lovely to find a place where I can speak to like minded people. I admitted to myself only at the end of November that I'm gay trans which is a big deal for me. I've been cross dressing everyday since and I plan to forever now. I had a bad period over the last few weeks but now I've joined here I'm back to this 100%. Can't and won't turn back now ❤️❤️❤️.

    Hopefully I can finally start my new life. And it starts here
     
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    hell yeah. Welcome to EC.
     
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    Welcome! People here are super helpful, also I know how that feels I totally intended to be stealth but the more I tried girls clothes the harder I found it to go back to dressing how I used to. Affirming your gender is the way to go.
     
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    I've been on a bit of a low one since new year as I had problems joining. But I'm back to accepting myself now as gay trans. I don't really do the pronouns thing but if I had to identify as one thing then it's a girl. I'm really struggling atm as I wear women's clothes underneath my coat and jeans when I go to the shops. But I really wanna just go out and do the whole thing. I've started wearing leggings to throw the rubbish out downstairs now. The neighbours saw me. They're quite tight as well lol.

    Can't wait to post all my threads and become a full member in a couple of weeks
     
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    Do you dress regularly? Are you any good at it?.
     
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    Thanks Hun. Is it easy to make new friends on here?.

    I'm still in the closet but that's only cos I don't have any gay friends and my friends won't take too kindly to who I am so I need to make new friends first
     
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    Welcome to Ec! We are a very kind loving community! I really hope you stay!
     
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    Glad to have you with us!
    .....David :gay_pride_flag:
     
  9. Philbrum1815

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    I've been warned with ban cus of username. Its not my full name or address. Please don't ban me. I'll change it. Ban will ruin me
     
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    Welcome to EC from a neighbour near Birmingham! I only finally accepted my sexuality last year after years of self-repression so completely understand where you're coming from on that front. I'm glad you too can finally be you.
     
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    I know. But I still need to find a man lol
     
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    I'm sure that he'll appear in time!
     
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    I wouldn't put money on that. Well see. Lol
     
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    I'm not sure I'm probably a work in progress but I have outfits I find really cute. I'm a big fan of black skirts and dresses with splashes of pink or purple.
     
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    Do you do all of the makeup etc?

    Also do you know anywhere in Europe where everyone is gay or prodominanly gay? Thinking of saving up for a holiday
     
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    So I do my nails foundation and eyeshadow so far and I'm slowly improving, I hope I can get some pointers from my friend's sister at some point but so far I'm trying to figure things out by myself. Also as far as I know there are no gay countries, there are those that are more accepting than others though.
     
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    I welcome you properly, though we've already talked. :smile:
     
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    Sorry for lateness of reply I'm not well
     
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    Don't be. There's no need to answer immediately. Sometimes I take days (or even months if I don't feel like being online) to answer people.

    I'm so sorry you're not well. (*hugs*)
     
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    You've no idea mate. I have undiagnosed chronic fatigue syndrome. If this don't go anywhere next week then I take legal action. This goes to court