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13.. Friend offered to have sex?!

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  1. Alishka

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    Ooohh XD Well oh well LOL
     
    #21 Alishka, Aug 9, 2014
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    did you get the friend request?
     
    #22 Peacemaker, Aug 9, 2014
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    Yup sorry! for the late reply I accepted
     
    #23 Alishka, Aug 9, 2014
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    oh ok, its fine dude, oh yea um what about your parents, do they know?
     
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    Nope don't even go there heck no no way!! My parents are so homophobic seriously its unbelieveable "Omg its unatural" "Theres a reasonw hy god made a man and woman" and whatnot.. they also accuse me of practicing sataisim (Wiccan) anyway not gonna go into that, my dad might even hit me if I come out soo nope.
     
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    oh im sorry thats horrible dude
     
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    Yup :frowning2: Thats why I'm planning to never tell them, and not involve them in supporting me or my love life.
     
    #27 Alishka, Aug 9, 2014
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    honey I would suggest going to canada or USA when ur older
     
    #28 Rosepetal, Aug 9, 2014
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    oh ok then, so you would never consider coming out to them, like when you can support yourself and am not under their roof
     
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    Exactly.. and as for dates I'll have to keep that secret too.. obviously LOL I might tell them when im moved out and an adult but now, never but i still fear they will figure it out theirselves
     
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    oh yup i understand
     
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    1) Check laws in your state.

    2) Be very careful about really thinking if this is what you want. 13 is young enough to have a desire for sex but (often times) not old enough to understand the emotional ramifications of having sex. Be prepared to develop a sense of attachment and have that emotional bond broken.

    3) I don't know how much porn you've watched or whatever, but generally speaking, anal sex requires some time and patience. He can't just get an erection, put a condom on and some lubricant on it, and penetrate your anus. In porn, they make it seem like it doesn't really take effort, time, or comfort. Also, don't let him get aggressive with you.

    4) Watch consent.

    5) Condoms are non-negotiable.
     
    #32 Pret Allez, Aug 9, 2014
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    Well I've sorta made up my mind and decided not to but still thanks for the tips! well quite a bit of porn LOL but I've done my research and that you have to go slow etc, hehe ^^
     
    #33 Alishka, Aug 9, 2014
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