Hey @JenP2 - I am new to the lesbian community and entirely feel what you are talking about. There’s a strong gay community in my neighboring...
Our situations with our spouses are very different, but I'm preparing to move myself and my girls (ages 5 & 8) out the end of July as well. We'll...
What was hardest for me, as you might imagine, was telling my husband. For that, I just finally got to a point where I knew I couldn't be fully...
So, an update. This has been an exhausting and sad weekend. My husband and my anniversary was yesterday and we celebrated it together knowing it’s...
I do hope so. Thank you.
It’s this weekend. I’ll be going to our local festival on Friday. I’ll report back! :)
Good for you!! I came to the same place only two weeks ago. It was scary to have the conversation, but I feel good not hiding from the truth anymore.
Though I’m not where you are yet, I’m definitely glad I have finally been open entirely with my husband. The road ahead may be long, but I’m glad...
:) Thank you. I'm going to! One way or another I will get myself there and take in all the happiness!
Thank you for sharing that. I think grieving goes on for a lifetime in some manner. For a long time in this process, I was grieving the future I...
Coincidentally, I told my husband just that this morning! We talked about a lot of logistics and where we could start regarding our divorce. I...
I have definitely found that my emotional response to S is far more intense than I've experienced before. And as she can be emotional as well, I...
I tried to talk to my girlfriend (though she won't allow that label at this point). And my hesitant discussion got turned around on me. She feels...
Thank you for all of that. I'm not used to a life of so much turmoil and it is really wearing on me. I do believe in a happy ending in here. A...
In many ways I'm in a good place. I'm out to my husband and accepted as such. We know divorce in in our future and will soon start working through...
It feels like you have a clear idea of where you’re heading even if you don’t know the end. I’m really happy to hear that :)
Oh no, @JToivonen - I’m so sorry that was such a rough conversation. I can’t imagine how it would be to try to combat someone’s “God reasoning.”...
Yes, I already feel this guilt just thinking about it. But your schedule seems reasonable, and I do find that I’m not present of mind much of the...
Thank you for all of that! It does feel like the financial piece is a big hurdle to start with. I think slowly piecing out those entanglements...
@Angelica g - Thank you! I will look at that! @JToivonen - Thank you for your encouragement. While I know we have a lot of hard times ahead, I do...
