Hi, Chris! I'm really sorry that you are going through such a difficult time, but please be assured that your experience is not uncommon. There...
Hi! Firstly, please be assured that you did exactly the right thing in talking to an LGBT helpline and other gay people about this. You seem to...
I’m not much of a gamer these days, but I can second the love for characters from the Ace Attorney series. I found Miles Edgeworth and Detective...
Belated and hearty congratulations, Dionysios! You always seem so willing to help other people out on this forum, so I'm really happy and...
I’m sorry to butt in again (and, yes, I'm afraid that this is going to be another really long ramble), but I think that we may have come to the...
I got into jazz when I was aged about 23, thanks to a reference book where the author listed his 50 all-time favourite jazz albums that were...
Nervously by the Pet Shop Boys is one of the finest rites of passage songs, isn’t it? I think that most people on this forum have either been in...
I understand where you are coming from re: LGBT groups. Joining a gay soccer team, for instance, requires purchasing a soccer shirt, a pair of...
Hi! You have written that you’ve been wracking your brain for months over what to call yourself, which indicates that you could be experiencing a...
Hi! Firstly, it would be counterproductive and irresponsible of me to tell you whether your fantasies are real: you have to find your own path in...
Hi! I'm in a similar situation - I'm closeted, in my early 30s and never been romantically/sexually intimate with anyone - so I know how...
And, before I forget, it’s imperative that you don’t change who you are when trying to befriend other people (and I’m referring to both genders,...
Hi, Joe! I’ve found this thread very interesting, largely because I have built stronger friendships with men, rather than women, over the years....
Hi! I’m sorry that you are going through such a difficult time and please be assured that my thoughts are with you. You’ve touched on some very...
I have very fond memories of Encarta MindMaze (obviously), Links: The Challenge Of Golf, Titus The Fox and Wannabe A Pop Star. I'm probably...
I’ve thought long and hard about this, but I’m really struggling to list many features. I'm not into guys that are too muscular or too skinny, but...
Hi! I’m sorry that you are going through a difficult time and, yes, what you have described (social withdrawal, low self-esteem, a lack of...
Hi, and welcome to Empty Closets! Opening up to people, even anonymously on the internet, takes a lot of courage, so you’ve already taken a...
A helpline should be your first port of call if you need any initial advice or information about something (whether it’s concerning your mental...
Rin311 is right, Crepy. His words are wise! What I want to add is that understanding your sexuality is a work in progress that should be taken...