I can totally empathize with what you're feeling. I've been having the same thoughts of "am I really willing to throw this all away?" It's taken...
Well, to be honest, I think my wife and I are in a very similar place as the two of you. I guess I'm making this choice and taking this risk to...
@Nickw, yes we have actually talked about some creative ways to do that. She is adamant that she could not tolerate that while we are living under...
Possibility? Yes that's absolutely a possibility. But I guess what keeps me heading in this direction is that the actions are new but the feelings...
Yes definitely this. It has been this thinking that has propelled me. And also feeling that what I stand to gain is a life with authenticity. By...
My experience with men has been only as I described in my original post - so a few dates. During those there was some physical stuff, which I...
Thanks all for the posts and encouraging words. @SevnButton, if I may ask have you had experiences with men before? I feel like I could at least...
So I haven't checked in with EC for a while, but coming back with an update and would welcome any advice/thoughts. I came out as bi to my wife...
Congrats Jake for taking that step. So the weirdest/coolest thing happened to me today. If I'm on a plane and the movie's available, I tend to...
Thanks Nick. I've read some of your other posts and just thought you were incredibly lucky to have a marriage and wife that can survive that kind...
I do think there are some options like that that could work, and we have been having good talks about what those could be. That, and finding trust...
Hi @nerdbrain and @Nickw. Honestly the comments from both of you really strike a chord. I've spent a lot of time thinking about 5-10 years from...
So it's continued to be pretty up and down between me and my wife. On the one hand, we've had some good conversations and our sex life has...
Hi all, an update from me a week later. After those first couple days, the talks and tears continued for a while. She went to a therapist, I went...
A few years ago (when having issues unrelated to my sexuality), my wife and I tried a single session of joint therapy. No individual time, just...
Hi @Jn6709. I’m close to a similar spot in my path, a little earlier on. Told my wife about a week ago. Have had a lot of very emotional...
Thanks everyone for the responses and encouragement. @quebec that’s exactly the choice I’m being asked to make and it’s a difficult one. With...
Rade, good to hear you’re keeping your head up through all this. I know it’s been tough on you and your family, but I hope things work out well...
So it took me a couple months to build up the nerve and find the right time and place, but I made the leap and came out to my wife as bisexual...
Hi Bren. Your post really resonated with me, at least in part because watching Love Simon was the start of my current intense and so far unending...
