If it ended as a separate issue from you being gay, I would just leave it be. He will figure it out in time.
My husband (recently ex husband) has known for years before I came out more broadly. Having taken care of that and a lot of the personal emotional...
Have you tried therapy?
I suppose I should be grateful for that, but it does feel a little odd to have held it all in for so long and have it change absolutely nothing. I...
It could work if it was fulfilling but it sounds like it isn't...
Have you gone on a virtual date? We are taking it slow and it is early, so no sexy stuff yet, but what was something you have done for a virtual...
I know one co-worker is the sort of Christian who thinks it's a sin, but at least she's also the sort who doesn't judge beyond that or get pushy...
The only responses were positive. But now I am going to feel anxious as I face people. I don't anticipate issues, but I am just so used to being...
I did it. This pretty much covers the people who I haven't told or is spreadable to those I haven't told.
Is anyone taking advantage of National Coming Out Day? I have come out to some family and I am thinking about coming out more broadly tomorrow.....
So, I have come out to family and close friends. I still have people who don't know, but I suspect that word will travel and most people will know...
The way to get over it and to not hurt him any more than necessary is to be honest with him and move on... It can take time to get to that point...
So, I only see my family every couple weeks or so and when I do, getting a chance to talk 1:1 can be difficult. When you have made it to your 30's...
No, not for me. Understanding our sexuality is more about being in touch with your feelings than it is about reasoning.
There are some errors above... should say things not kings. Very different...
It took emotional disconnection and major marital problems before I could emotionally distance myself from my husband to realize I am a lesbian....
He needs processing time as well as clear and consistent messages from you. My husband also wanted to work on things and didn't understand why we...
This reminds me, I raised ducks this last spring... Now I have lots of thoughts around what I want to do with my ducks... I got pet ducks and then...
Working to clear your mind, rather than cover the noise, might be another strategy to try.
So, I'm currently closeted and recently divorced (from a man), but I met a really awesome woman online and we are now dating. When in the dating...