I remember feeling this way. - All of us were 'a few steps behind' at one time or another!
:slight_smile: Yes good problems to have ! :grin: For years I was indifferent to marrying a woman, when I think of kissing my husband when he...
Before I didn't notice or I would avoid the flirty smiles I got from guys, now I smile back. It's really hard to tell because now I am going to...
I had a few drunk gay hookups years ago in the closet, where I chickened out in the middle. I really consider my first gay sex experience just a...
Yes it's scary but what I found is the really scary part is acknowledging the passion I was feeling. the 'fear of being wrong' is common because...
justaguyinsf is one of the most truly open minded people here, I am not married but it sounds like sound advice. Sex doesn't have to be the...
what scared and shocked me even more is the intimacy I think the sex came out of that. What came hard to come to terms with that I felt that...
I know you have a lot more to deal with - husband, child, family - thanI do but your posts sound so much like how I felt. As for scary part or the...
I feel the same way. I can see myself living with a husband but the actual wedding seems weird.Maybe we need to not try to imitate a hetero...
I felt like that too. I knew where I was going to end up even when there were times I didn't want to go there. Many people here experience the...
That's true. And most people have been supportive anyway. I am just glad to be fully out! :) The real hard work was in the beginning. I remember...
looking back, all it took was coming here and posting "i think i might be gay' once I finally faced that issue, even when I resisted, I knew there...
hi Patrick, I wasn't forced and didn't go though any kind of therapy- I just sought answers on my own. I saw personal testimonials that seemed...
congrats. It's funny my first 'out' was the same - I just blurted it out... I didn't think coming out was a big deal but after it felt so good,...
Yes it's very very hard but possible. Science can be politicized. That's why it's being used as a political tool now. Any scientist as you have...
The good news is that acceptance comes eventually. Now when I think about the intense sexual and romantic feelings I have for men,, I feel happy...
I understand. Many of us were like that. before I accepted myself (which is only in the last year) i was very repressed. I didn't think I had...
Congratulations! What are you uncomfortable about ? Labeling or identifying yourself as gay, or the actual relationship?
I didn't mean to label you, sorry! as @silverhalo said you don't have to give yourself one. Some of us find it helpful, others don't. My key to...
Yes. It seems people who come out later in life do it in two ways; They slowly realize or accept urges they have been suppressing. the more...
