It's like once you realize and accept the depth and immensity of these feelings, you know there's no going back. Thanks for sharing.
My high school quote was similar: There is a rawness and a wonder to life. Pursue it. Hunt for it. Sell out to get it. Don’t listen to the whines...
When people explode in anger at us, it drains our love units from them. Even if you had felt overwhelming love for the boy at the beginning, being...
You seem crystal clear on this point, so yes, there's no harm in pursuing that happiness. See where it takes you. You might not be postponing...
Not really offering help here, just support because I hear you. If your spouse loves you and would rather be with you as gay than break up, than...
It's ideally best to follow your heart, I will second that. It's just so hard if you're in a relationship and have kids and he wants you to...
Yes it's normal. There are pros and cons to almost anything we do in life, and leaving a comfortable relationship where you have been for YEARS is...
Re: Did any of you not know that you were attracted to the same sex when you were a t I have disbelief about a minority of the stories shared...
OutofZCloset makes a good point. Sometimes the Pandora's box cannot be closed. If your #1 goal in all of this is to stay married, your exposure to...
Re: Did any of you not know that you were attracted to the same sex when you were a t I wonder what is it that makes certain people choose...
You can!! Just please keep us updated :D
I hate that it matters so much to people. I have friends coming out and all through the grapevine it's "how could they not know?? their poor...
I love dreams and dream interpretation but yours are basically at face value as you say. The gender switching role thing is interesting! I have...
I LOVE this!!! :roflmao:
I can relate with this, and it surprises me. My voice and personality and old (healthy) patterns of behavior are emerging, very slowly. I am...
Something I've wanted to get off my chest for a while. The way I see it, there are two parts to being turned on: #1. Being desired Hugs that...
I feel for you, I really do. I will just say the fact that you are identifying cutting off the feelings from her as an option (even if it makes...
Re: Did any of you not know that you were attracted to the same sex when you were a t I think perhaps for many of us, it caught us by surprise....
I think with close-minded people who are interested in only jobs, cars, kids, keeping up with Joneses, that they would define you by that any...
Wow, so amazing! I wouldn't have thought! Thanks for showing that there is acceptance/hope in such a place remote from the "western" culture :)