Great - sounds like you've made great progress!
Hi everyone, I've been away for some time. Today I launched an LGBTQ+ ERG at my company. My son is in college, and I have a new BF. Happy...
I experienced anger earlier in my journey because of various pressures (society, family, conservative values etc.) to keep me in the closet. Then...
You must feel that it's unfair for them to be out while you are forced in the closet to keep the peace in the relationship. From what you've...
Once you make your first real connection with a guy, any regrets about coming out will quickly dissipate. The challenge is finding that guy....
You know that you are gay and need to tip the shame-acceptance fulcrum. All of us go through the process to get to the other side. I wrote up my...
Hi quadratic, Like you I came out later in life and went through the trials and tribulations of the transition. I'm happily on the other side...
@Confused25 I read your thread from late January, and you stated that your "attraction to men is way stronger than with women even though i never...
Here are a few thoughts/questions. First, it's great that you are asking these questions about your sexuality now before you get further into the...
When I was younger (and before I was out to myself), I tended to notice guys much more than women. Based on what you wrote here, it sounds like...
Hey Confused25, Why do you think that you are gay? Best, SF
Hey CJ, I certainly appreciate the difficult position that you are facing. It must be difficult (if not impossible) for you to attend support...
My suggestions are based on previous posts before COVID-19. You'll need to adapt them to the current environment. When I first started dating, my...
Hey BarJedi, When one comes out later in life, they go through a period of whirlwind change - coming out, separating, divorcing, discovering...
Based on what you wrote, it seems that you do have a hot, passionate, and most importantly healthy sex life with your BF. The missing...
Hey OTH, I'm wondering what this means? It's been my experience that BF sex is hot, much more so than sex with strangers. You seem to have some...
Because of the longing, I wonder if your mind is trying to tell you something by being attracted intensely to guys who look like you in your 30s?...
Hey @Nickw How are things with you? It seems that you are attracted to guys who are half your age? When I was in that phase, I was still...
Hey CJ, I'm glad that you have the clarity that you want to live your life as a gay man. There are 2 factors to consider in moving forward....
A few thoughts ... You refer to your BF as "BF" rather than "partner". Does it make sense to cross that bridge before considering marriage?...
