Hello everyone, Two summers ago, I dated the most romantic, kind, respectful, and driven person I had ever met. Unfortunately he ended it...
The first one, I don't think there was anything particularly special about the first date. We went for drinks, then we went for a walk through a...
Hey. Hope every one is having a great weekend! I'm just wondering, especially the people who have found online dating works well for them, could...
Oh yes, I saw a therapist for a couple months last year and talked at great lengths about these guys and the need to choose safe partners. I...
Thanks for your reply, Gravity :-) I would say : 1. Because if I'm not dating, this year, then I should still find a way to make this time count,...
Nah. You're only 24. There isn't anything in your life that's forever ruined. You have your whole life ahead of you, so with a little effort and...
A couple suggestions: Perhaps find a better instructor that will be more understanding of your fears and that will take you through the steps at...
Hello all, I've decided to take a break from dating for the next year or so. I'm living in a temporary city for school, after which my goal is...
I agree that there's definitely a problem with internalized homophobia and probably a lot of shame. Have you read "The Velvet Rage" by Alan Downs?...
It happens to all of us, feeling attracted to a straight person. Just make sure you give yourself certain emotional boundaries. Don't obsess over...
If there is one extremely clichéd saying that is soooooo extremely true, it's: BE YOURSELF!!!! Why? Because if you're not being yourself, then...
Actually, that's the next big thing I've got to stop worrying about. Ever since I turned 25, in my mind, I'm on the verge of turning 30. I really...
I'm sorry about what happened between you and your friend, man. That's a hard thing to go through. You're right, I can't live in the past. I...
Hello all, I'm just trying to figure out why the heartbreak from my last relationship has come back to hit me again almost a year later at a...
Hey man, Do you want to be successful just for the sake of being successful or is your area of study something that you're passionate about? It's...
Hey. I'm sorry you're going through this. All I can say is that my high school experience was exactly the same in the sense that I was a total...
Unfortunately, I get the impression that the problem isn't really ignorance but a lack of empathy. It still is possible that people with a...
You may be right. We've been dating a month, of which I was gone 2 weeks during the holidays though. So it hasn't been that long, even if we did...
No. In actual fact, the signs would suggest that he IS into me. I just fear that once I tell him about my needs, that he'll be turned off :-/
Thanks for your reply :-) Things are going pretty well. I stopped fretting about text messages once I realized that even if he's not super...
