Peaceful Warrior, with my son (in his early 30s).
I decided to look up "adolescent" in an online dictionary, and what came back was "in the process of developing from a child into an adult." As a...
I had some experience something along those lines... several years before I was finally diagnosed with autism in my mid-40s, someone I knew from a...
I really hope that was just a passing thought, because that'd be a permanent solution to a temporary problem, guaranteeing that life could never...
I've found it useful to take my view of something and turn it over as though it was a coin, to see what might be on the other side. I can sure...
I forgot to add: it was easy for me to agree to my former wife's request because it made so much sense. Of course I couldn't give her the...
One of my former wives is bisexual. We went into our marriage with the clear understanding that she could have a girlfriend if she wished; all I...
I can't claim to be "making it work", but I'm farther along the path than I've ever been - a path with lots of twists and turns. My husband and I...
The way I came to know was by doing two things that didn't work: believing/insisting for 40+ years that I was straight despite a good deal of...
A single number just doesn't describe me either. There are enough different aspects of my sexuality that it'd take at least a map rather than just...
For me, bisexuality consists not of major overlaps in who I find attractive, what turns me on, or who I can have a (conventionally-)complete...
And if I could add my experience to that, one's understanding of it can also change over time. Several years ago I began the process of "coming...
Sexuality can sure be complex... best I can tell, I used gay (meaning entirely homosexual) as a stepping stone toward the...
It's possible to end the life you've been living without ending your life entirely. That represents a third option which you might not have...
I remember my mother telling me something many years ago - that she didn't think a man could be interesting until he was at least 50. As I...
I've been on both sides of this situation. When my (most recent) former wife and I married, it was with the explicit understanding that, since...
One my new husband introduced me to a few years ago, earlier in our relationship: Big Eden I think he sought to know and understand me...
I'd suggest an alternative... try saying this to yourself and see if it might sound true: "Once you turn 30 in one part of the gay community,...
When I came out at 60 one of the consequences was that the very way I move changed. I don't obviously swish (well, except in certain...
I'm an Aspie too - finally diagnosed well into my 40s. Being on the autism spectrum has certainly complicated my efforts to come to terms with my...
