I used to think I was a 1 but I'm starting to think I'm more like a 4. I don't mean I get hung up on the numbers because I don't but I do get pretty hung up about my identity and wish I had a definite answer. Which maybe I never will.
I've come out 4 or 5 each time. As I'm married to a woman I have to answer the questions a certain way (of course) although in my soul I feel like I'm a 6.
I normally come out at 4; occasionally I'll hit 5. What does this mean (yes I love having sex with guys)
A single number just doesn't describe me either. There are enough different aspects of my sexuality that it'd take at least a map rather than just a point on a line, and then the map would look gerrymandered How else to explain that I'm not really sexually attracted to men at all, yet I love my husband dearly and enjoy being able to put a smile on his face in bed? At the same time, I'm very aware of a longing for intimacy with women... but if that worked as well in practice as it does in my desires then I'd still be married to my former wife See why I chose the username I did?
I think some people as they get older?/wiser?/more mature?/just get to know themselves better? realize that monogamy doesn't totally work for themselves. Something to consider...
