If you are going every 2-4 months, you aren't dependent. Nor are you wasting her time. Therapy is an individual experience for each person. In...
One of the challenge with finding a therapist is that, unlike going to see, say, an orthopedic doctor, there is no standard way that therapy is...
What you are describing doesn't remotely sound like someone who is straight, nor, particularly, someone who is bi. It sounds like someone who...
One of the keys is that you are fantasizing about men when you are with a woman. That is a pretty common experience with people who eventually...
I got Covid for the first time in January, and I'm not a youngster either, nor in perfect health. But for whatever reason, I lucked out. Felt...
Hi, Scott! Welcome! I think you'll find there are plenty of folks here who are in (or have recently been in) the same place you are. Please feel...
There's something in the psychology field called "cultural encapsulation." This happens when we surround ourself with people who hold beliefs or...
If that works for you, then more power to you. But I submit to you that it is unworkable. Straight men are some 90% of the population. They're...
I guess it depends on what you are after. If what you are looking for is simply to vent, and have your perception of straight men validated, you...
All of them have essentially the same ingredient: benzocaine or some variant that is a topical anesthetic. These do work, there is no...
Oral-genital transmission, from all data we have going back close to 40 years now, is nearly nonexistent. You are describing something pretty...
Alcohol and anxiety can both be major factors that inhibit capacity for erection. Nothing the OP has written would remotely suggest any indication...
This is OCD. It has nothing to do with latency.
Nope. Absolutely zero support for this anywhere in the credible literature. All I can add is I care/worry a lot less about maintaining an...
I agree with searching2022. The flags are the bisexuality and closeted pieces. The latter more than the former. It is generally miserable dating a...
Hi, Revan! Nice to see you again!! I think you're being thoughtful with this, which is wise. Personally, I think it's important in this day and...
It doesn't imply, it makes it exceedingly clear she suspects. And it's highly unlikely she'd be asking this, on more than one occasion, if she...
Condoms should ALWAYS be used. And PREP is a great "backup" if you are engaging in a lot of non-monogamous sex, But PREP also has long-term risks...
This is likely someone who is battling internally who they are attracted to. A friend of mine that I've known for close to 20 years told stories...
Yes, absolutely. And we have quite a number of members on EC for whom that's been their experience.