Would you date a trans* female/male

I don't get the (over) use of the -phobic suffix. So is a gay man who refuses to date a woman now "heterophobic" or is he "female-phobic?" jeez.

Maybe someone can just not be attracted to a transgendered person. Doesn't mean you hate someone nor does it indicate a fear of someone. Just that they aren't your sexual "cup o' tea." Isn't that what sexual freedom is about, so that you can be attracted (or not) to whomever?

 

Doubtful.

 

It depends.
If we are talking about a transgender who didn't fully transition, and has no plans too. Then you may have a point. I can admit that I will not want to be in a sexual relationship with someone like that. But I know a lot of people would.

However, if a woman, for example, has fully transitioned. Genitals and all. What difference does it make? How is she different from any other woman? Aside from her past? If you fall in love in with her, and dump her simply because she was a boy in the past, then yes, you are transphobic.

As for me, I would date a woman before she finishes transitioning, but only if she has plans to go all the way. And I won't hold it against anyone if they feel the same way and don't date me for that reason. As someone who currently is unsure if she will go through with a full transition or not.

 

I would regardless if they were male or female.

 

Hell Yeah!!!

 

I would have no problem dating a trans or genderqueer person. Their gender doesn't have anything to do with whether or not their the 'right' person for me.

 

Well... I wouldn't date a trans man even if he doesn't plan on transitioning, but I'd date a trans woman if she was post op or planning on transitioning. If she doesn't plan on transitioning... Maybe.

 

Of course I would. I've said it before, I'll say it again. I'm lesbian, and I date women. It doesn't matter if it's a biological woman, or a transsexual woman. What matters for me, is the heart and the soul. A girl on the inside, is a girl on the outside. What's in the pants is of no relevance for me.

 

I would date a trans man, before surgery or after.

 

No bother to me *shrugs* As long as the person is lovely and will give me cuddles, and can handle dating an author >.>;; (We run away to write without warning I have been told)

 

Yes I would. im attracted to femininity and women....so atranswomans a woman. Doesnt matter to me if she doesnt have the bottom surgery or not. She could even like it , Ive met plenty that were happy in that aspect passing in all.others.

 

Not likely, but love is love.

 

no, it makes you, you.

personally if the person did "it" for me and we clicked i would

 

Plenty of intelligent and beautiful trans men and women in the world,so... hell yes!