Wonder if you are gay? Ask yourself, . is there magnetism? ~2 years ago I wrote in my journal, ~"My magnetic attraction to the check out clerk at Home Depot. I do not understand the phenomena of this attraction." Then from NYT article about Britney Spears new memoir, "Spears recounts her connection with Timberlake as magnetic and....." I say, yup. I so love it when my feelings are validated, specially second source validation.