Were you planned or a "surprise"?

I found all of this out last Christmas. I wasn't planned, and there was a chance I could have not been able to live in the U.S. because of a controlling family member. But once I came through, my mom and dad did make it a point to raise me the best they could as my parents. I'm sure if my father were still alive he'd still be in my life. Even though I was the catalyst for their wedding, from what I know and what my mom's told me, he really cared for me. I believe it too.

 

Fairly sure I was planned, since I'm only two years younger than my brother, and my parents had been married a good 5 or 6 years when he was born. My other three siblings on the other hand I'm not so sure about..

 

I was planned. My parents conceived me roughly a year after their marriage.
Boring? I know.

 

condom broke

 

Erm I was planned in the sense they wanted kids. xD Took them a wee while to get me. haha. So I found out.

 

I don't know or really care. Also not gonna go up and ask my mom. I'm here and that is all that matters.

 

I was Planned.. or so I was told. But then again..

I was Concieved around New Years.Sounds pretty suprising to me.

Hrmm.

 

My mom wanted a girl (as she had already had two boys before me)!

Well... I like guys. Does that count? lol

 

I was planned, my younger brother wasn't. It was a good surprise, though.

 

My mom planned it and dad was surprised when told

 

I was planned. They tell me my sister was planned too. But I like to think of her as a surprise (gone terribly wrong). Lol jk

 

I was an accident I think

 

i'm pretty sure i was planned. sadly, i'm the last one. my brother and i gave my mother hell during her pregnancies. that's probably why she stopped after 2. my dad wanted more though

 

I was planned. She wanted to have a kid the previous year but her father told her to wait because she was too young.

 

Half and half. I was planned in that sperm from my dad was put into my mom. The surprise is A) The pregnancy actually happened due to them being rather close to infertile and B) That I came out a boy instead of a girl like they had thought I was gonna be Meredith.

 

I was planned. I was also a pleasant surprise because they had 3 miscarriages after my sister. They wanted a boy, got a girl and if I was a boy I was going to be Bjorn.

 

I was planned, my brother wasn't... Aparently I was supposed to be born a girl, but the doctor read the scans wrong, lol. My brother said when I was born 'Put him back I want a sister'...

 

I was the only one who wasn't planned; both my older and younger sisters were.

 

I was a total surprise. My parents got married right out of high school so they wouldn't have to be separated by their parents moving across the coastline. My mom was going to college and so was my dad, but then she got pregnant and they left school to get work. I guess that makes me the reason for their poverty. Jk. My other sisters we're not exactly surprises, but we're definitely not planned.

Fun stuff.

 

No offense but why would anyone's parents tell their children that they were "planned". I wouldn't want to know that my parents were fucking like jackrabbits trying to get pregnant lol

Luckily I'm the last out of my 3 other siblings and my parents weren't in love by the time I knew what sex is so I never had to worry about hearing them "attempt reproduction" lol.