why does sexuality have to be so confusing?!? i keep going through periods of being convinced im lesbian and then not so sure and feeling bad about myself! i feel completely unstable, and it doesnt help that i rarely get crushes on people. the last person i dated was nonbinary (but i think i liked them because they were very feminine looking and had short hair) and ive been so confused ever since. i realized i dont like dudes very much but i dont know if im just uncomfortable or i really just dont like guys. im constantly flopping on myself! hheelllpp im a big oof