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Touch and Feel

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by rocking23, Oct 25, 2008.

  1. Mikeyy

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    You might want to talk about it... you could either take the "so.... did you have a hidden agenda in inviting me to your place?" route, or the "when i pulled my hand away, what i REALLY wanted to do was..."

    or not. both of those could turn out quite bad.
     
  2. JT

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    That was hot... not gonna lie.
    I think he might be saying he's a little curious... but don't look too far into his actions
     
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    he might have been testing you to see how far you would go, if he suspects your gay, but that would be a pretty cruel way to find out, and that isnt really the route many, if any straight friends would take. sounds like he got lost in the moment and was into it, and wanted to mess around with you, and was testing the water under the cover of having a laugh. but yeah if you hadnt pulled back, you would have crossed the line into a moment you couldnt laugh off easily. which is probably why you pulled away.

    and he doesnt sound straight as an iron rod either. but i wouldnt push it saying that. i think it would be really awkward if you questioned him about it. wait to see if he acts like that again..
     
  4. rocking23

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    Thanks so much lexie, that makes a lot of sense.
    School is tomorrow and I have a class with him.
    I wonder what he'll say.
     
  5. cm25

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    same problem here! Coming out to him is gunna be AKWARD!!
     
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    Go back to his house, start something similar, then pretend it was fictional and write a book about it so I can read it.

    (not really, I don't have any good advice for this)
     
  7. rocking23

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    thats great news!!
    im reely happy for you :slight_smile:
    aaaw
    i think you pulled away because you have too much respect for him maybe?
    or you thought he was only joking, and if you did carry on with it, it may wreck your friendship
    but thats such good news :slight_smile:
    <3
     
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    i think that you know that was wrong and didnt whant to go down there cuz you was one of his mates .