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Soooo am I screwed forever?

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by D_Alejandro, May 27, 2010.

  1. gaz83

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    well if people choose to sleep around thats thier thing but i personally am not into that. the thing i am doing just now in my search for a partner i stated im only interested in chatting just now and maybe move onto something more serious. i am of the belief that there is someone out there that wants the exact same thing we do. and its working. theres actually alot more people than you think that want a steady relationship.
     
  2. D_Alejandro

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    You guys are awesome. Thank you so much for the advice!

    And yes I guess it doesn't matter what gender you are...it depends on the person. I am hanging in there and having hope. It's really hard! But I can't give up, I just can't.

    You guys I feel a whole lot better! :slight_smile:

    The only problem is that where I live, 95% of gay guys are whores...truly. And the gay scene is awful, I was left with a horrible experience. And looks like I'll be stuck here for quite sometime. I'm always scared that one day it will be too late. :/

    But I just have to be positive and hope for the best, right?
     
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    Right, and trust me, it's not just where you live, it's like that everywhere. :frowning2:
    Sadly I know that from experience.
    But there are also wonderful, amazing guys and I'm sure you'll find one of them soon.
     
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    Oh, girls are most definitely just as sexual as guys. We're just better at hiding it - and it's expected of us to hide it.
    It's just as hard to find a girl who's not a committment-phobe as it is to find a guy.

    You never know what's going to happen in the future, so hang in there. You're only 20 - someone you don't expect may come along, and you won't have to worry about men being whores. XD
     
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    I actually find man-whores very unattractive.

    There are people out there like you, that want a relationship. Am I saying it will last forever? Maybe, maybe not...I don't have a crystal ball.
     
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    Oh wow. I thought i was the only person in the world who felt like that. I was cheated on. Many times. By the same person. Cuz I was stupid enough to believe that any relationship can get through ANYTHING if the love is strong enough. I thought it was. Guess not. I have to get him out of my life before he does any more damage than he already has. I just want someone to make memories with while we're young and then we can look back in the future. I need someone I can tell anything to. Someone to be with me through life. Thats all I want. Is it so much to ask for? All I ever hear/see is about cheating, lying, sex...I dont' care about that. I care about love and I trust my heart. But most of the time it seems like I'm the only one who does...