I've been surprised at the type of guy I'm attracted to. When I was hiding in my "straight life" I always and only dated very thin athletic women. You could say the blond bimbos, but the guys I really find attractive are the bigger bear types. I find my self gravitating toward the older heavy set men. Anyone else have experience a complete opposite attraction in the same sex?
Yes . I went from hairy overweight older men in their 40’s and 50’, to a overweight non hairy woman ,she’s so beautiful ! And I was never attracted to bigger women before I became big myself. Haha but I am now , we both wanna lose weight but it’s not our primary goal atm . Oh And I kissed her first ! On our first date where as with men I have always let them go first with everything. I’m still a submissive , and into bdsm . But now I have a Dominant fiancé who is a girl and lesbian . She’s also 31 and I’m 26 . But you would never know she is 31 she acts 20 ! I’m beyond happy .
