So the person I’m interested has her Fb page checked to opposite. I want to if she’s Indeed interested in men or if woman as well. So how I ask her without offending. A bit off topic Also I think she follows me on social under the company she works for she likes a lot of my post. If post a selfie she likes it and other post. If I comment on something she responds. So at the very least she’s interested in me? How do I I know if she interested me as person or potentially a friendship that develops into something more. I don’t want to set myself for disappointment. She’s knows i like girls. But curious if she knows I like her. I have talked to her a couple times but kept it professional. I saw in November of last year and avoided her. I regret not talking to her. I just wanted to say hi. She tried to acknowledge me but I snubbed her. Being around her makes my gut drop. An adrenaline rush. When I had to contact her last year to close deal on my part it took me awhile to collect myself and talk to her. When I first met her and had to go her office alone I had the flight or fight response. I wanted to run but I stuck it out. In the beginning I had a lot of resentment towards because I thought she did something for the sole purpose of hurting me. Eventually after talking to people in the same profession as hers and seeing her job description I found I was wrong to feel angry and that it was projection of angry I felt of making a bad decision. I want to talk to her about how feel as a therapist recommended it. I think I’m ready. I don’t know her well enough to just dm her on Fb. I may not like what she has to say but I think it will help me move on. I don’t want to be there to see her reaction. Also she and her coworkers know something is up with me and subitley showed their concern.
