need advice i want to know if my good friend is secretly gay and is into me

Sounds like he's bi-sexual to me...total straight guys don't touch another guys ass's and follow it up with talking about dicks..lol..Why not get him alone and ask him! don't joke about it but ask him in a respectful, serious manner...also..do you like him? sexually?

 

I don't know, to me it kind of sounds like what they said about fucking was a test for you to see what you would say and if you might be gay. The slapping your ass and "suck my dick" comments seem to further support that, in my opinion trying to instigate and see what you do. If you were straight and didn't like it, they figure you'd probably speak out and say so. I'd be a little cautious myself, especially going along with stuff.

 

Have you ever had a sexual encounter with a guy before...? if so how did you feel? you could be bi-sexual also...it sounds to me like this guy turns you on! why not ask him and see if he feels the same way and just take it from there...also how has he responded when the topic of gays comes up in a conversation...? also the eye contact thing he did is a very strong signal that he's into you! give him some flirty eye contact back once and awhile and see how he responds? then maybe you can go somewhere quiet and have a chat and ask him then.

 

How old are you?

Actually, many guys (including straight guys) go through a phase around adolescence/early teen years where they question if they could be gay.

So it could be just a phase, but if you're well into your adulthood and had these feelings for a while, you're probably not completely straight.

When your friend Chris says he will lick your balls or s your d, and you don't go along with it, what is his reaction? Next time he does that, have you thought about asking him "You like guys?"

Sorry i'm not much help... Keep us posted and hope things turn out well!

 

I'll be the voice of reason and say - probably not.

Many guys, even into old age, joke around with sexual comments for shock value. All of my friends talk as if they're going to orgy any second. They're all 100% straight. My best friend constantly wanted to "plow my ass" - even after coming out to him he pinches my ass, and comments on all the things I could do to his dick. He doesn't mean a word of it - it's for the comedy value only.

I hope you get the answer you want from your friend; but, I'd not hang your hat on it. The only real way to find out if some guy is gay is for him to tell you.

 

I feel like if he was secretly gay (i.e. really closeted), he's doing an absolutely terrible job at keeping it a secret. So I doubt he's keeping secrets. And if he's not keeping secrets, then I'm sure if he was gay you would have heard about it at some point in the last 2 years.

I second what cscipio said, guys say sexual things all the time. I wouldn't make much of it.

So I don't think I really know what he means by his actions, but I don't think there's much that leads to him being secretly gay, in my opinion.

 

Maybe he wants you to know he's Bi? and that he likes you too... just ask him when your with him alone, be serious and mature about it when you do. Have you ever tried touching him and see how he responds like like grabbing his shoulder or touching his back, touch testing is one of the things I have used in the past long with eye contact...there's just a certain eye contact 2 guys who are gay use, hard to explain until you see it really.