Love my best friend

Blayde · Jan 4, 2015

If not being able to have kids is one of the main issues that are bothering you about being with guys, you could always consider adoption in the future. I know some people are against adoption because the kid(s) would not be biological, but there's more to a family than being related by DNA (a quote from ABC Family's "The Fosters": DNA doesn't make a family. Love does.). Also, you could always find a surrogate! On a side note, I'm happy to hear that you're having positive experiences as you come out to more people, and I wish you the best of luck!

person57 · Mar 24, 2015

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Hey, I wanted to drop a line or two again, since a lot has changed in the past month!

After telling the truth to my ex, I felt an extreme weight lift from my shoulders. I realized that I really want to try and find a guy, so I downloaded an app for meeting guys, and after some awkward conversations, and refusals of guys who just wanted to fuck me, I found an amazing guy who has so much in common with me and I really like his looks as well We chatted for a while and we finally met up this Wednesday. I was nervous as fuck when I was on my way to the pub we decided on, but once I sat down with him, it felt so great, it was so relaxed we only talked, didn't even kiss, but I felt great after the date ended, because I was proud of myself that I didn't back out and that it was so fun. We also made plans to meet again!

Last week, I also had a great opportunity to talk to my ex-crush in private again, so I told him how I felt, that I'm more into guys than to girls. It was kinda' funny, I was still pretty nervous while telling him but he said "you know you can't really surprise me anymore" and laughed, which really relaxed me, so I told him everything, including the fact that I completely got over him. He also said he's really glad that I know what I want now and that again I'm the happy person he used to know.

He also said numerously during the conversation that he doesn't want to judge me because he can't imagine going through something like that, and yesterday he told me that for half a day or so, back when I had sent him that message, he didn't even believe me. So after all, he probably wasn't into me at all, that's just the way he is. And I'm really glad it ended up like this because our friendship is better than ever before, I can finally be completely honest to him and I can't even remember the last time I was as happy as I am now

I also came out to the other best friend. All of Wednesday, he tried to make me tell him who I'm going on a date with in the evening. So on Thursday, I asked him whether he wants to know who I dated, and he asked for her name, so when I told him her name was John, first he didn't get it, then he thought I was joking and then after like 5 minutes he understood that I'm serious and he refused to believe me at first he said he never even thought about this during all these years, that he never suspected me. He was actually shocked and had a hard time taking it in, but he accepted it and he said he's glad that I had told him and said I'm brave for telling him because he would never have the balls to do it. And just like the ex-crush, he said he's glad that lately I've been the person he used to know again and he's glad for me that my depressive days are over.

So now, I am out to both of my best friends, my ex and I'm maybe gonna have a great boyfriend I plan to come out to my parents before leaving to a moutain cottage with friends for the New Year, so that they have a few days to comprehend it.

That's where I am right now and I really wanted to share my happiness with you here and once again thank you for helping me get back on my feet
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I'm very glad you're happy and that everything is getting better for you (*hug*)

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