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Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by Day Dreamer, Jan 6, 2024.

  1. Day Dreamer

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    I am a lonely person. If I am not taking care of my family or working I am worrying about what my life has become. I am only out to a few people. I am hoping to connect with a few people just to talk about life in general and maybe find some friends. Thanks for listening.
     
  2. Jakebusman

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    Hi Welcome to EC I will be your friend
     
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    Welcome to EC. Sorry to hear you're down and I hope this new year finds you well and you're able to make many new friends. I'm pretty busy myself taking care of family and working. So I know how it goes.
     
  4. Carla01

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    Hi Day Dreamer Welcome to EC Friends in these days of live for us is precious I realized that last night I will be your friend
     
  5. quebec

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    Day Dreamer.....Hello and a big LGBTQIA+ welcome to Empty Closets! :old_smile: I can remember the first post that I made on EC. I was desperate for help and I got the help that night that I so needed. I hope that we can help you in the same way that I received help. The most important thing to remember about Empty Closets is that we do care about you! We're very glad that you found us here on EC and hope that we can answer questions, give you support and provide a place to vent (as long as it's not violent! :old_wink: ) when that becomes necessary! This is a safe community of loving, caring and very supportive people and we will do our best to help you blend into the community.

    *****There are 18 different sub-forums here that you can check out, join in the conversations or start your own thread/conversation. When I first joined Empty Closets I was in need of a lot of support and encouragement and I found it here…EC is a safe place. I hope that you'll find good things here too! Folks here will talk to you and share...you don't have to be afraid of asking questions...we're glad to have you! Empty Closets is all about making connections and giving LGBTQ folks a voice when they otherwise don't have one in their day-to-day lives. :old_cool:

    *****In particular you may want to check out the forum that is titled "LGBT Later in Life, there are people there who may have dealt with some of the same kind of issues that could be challenging you.

    Some info on how to navigate EC: :old_confused:
    When you have made at least 10 posts on various threads you will be able to post messages on a member's Profile Page. Just click on a member's Avatar Picture and then click on "Profile Page" in the dialogue box that pops up. You'll then be on their Profile Page and there will be a box that says: "Write Something" When you have been on EC for a few weeks and have made at least 50 posts on various forums, you can apply for Full Membership. A Full Member can send Private Messages (PM) to other Full Members and share personal contact info. Right now you can only send a PM to a Staff Member as that is always possible. Here is a quote from the Full Membership information forum:

    *****To be eligible you must be a member of Empty Closets for a minimum of two weeks, and have a minimum of 50 posts. These posts must be across numerous forums (Fun & Games does not contribute to post count), and consistently posted across a minimum of two weeks. You wouldn't be eligible, for example, if you registered, had no activity for two weeks, and then returned to post 50 times on your 14th day of membership.

    *****Well, as I said, we're very glad you found us! :old_big_grin: If you have any questions at all, you can always send me a Private Message.

    …..David :gay_pride_flag:
     
  6. BlueLion

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    Welcome on board, Day Dreamer!

    This site is awesome and we will be glad to help you and be your friends.

    If you have any doubt on how the forum works do not hesitate to ask.

    Nice to meet you.

    All the best,

    Víctor.
     
  7. Vintage gay

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    Welcome! I'm a 68-year-old gay man who is still in the process of coming out. If I can help in any way, just let me know.
     
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    Hello, Day Dreamer. Taking care of others and working, though it's necessary, can force us to not focus on ourselves. So don't hesitate to talk to us and tell us whatever you need. Welcome to this forum, and I hope you find what you need here!
     
  9. Cinnamoon

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    I'm sorry you're lonely. I get lonely a lot too, which is part of why I'm here. I hope you find some kind people to connect with on here, I'm sure you'll settle in quickly. Feel free to browse around and make yourself at home!
     
  10. Carla01

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    I listen to music to help to Loneliness the pass you can reach out to me when the loneliness is getting to much
     
  11. tearingtherose

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    Hi Day Dreamer, welcome to EC. I empathise completely, I too have to juggle work and family and find there's little time left for me. You've found a wonderful community here, and I look forward to sharing in your journey.
     
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    Welcome to EC!