Is it a fetish to fixated on the penis? Wanting to play with and pleasure? I do not fond other areas of a man attentive, just that part.
Would also like to add, if I was in the position to, if I met a guy I would want to be the bottom and would have no issues of he finished in on or wherever. I feel if it was someone like Daisy Taylor i would not have an issue at all with the situation. With all of that does it make it fetish of the penis?
Given that the penis is the male sexual organ doesn't that preclude it from being a fetish? And does it matter? Beth
I don't there's anything wrong with having a fixation! I felt a bit the same way before I realised I was bi - I was fascinated, obsessed with the idea of the penis but didn't feel really attracted to the rest of men in general! But now I think internalised societal homophobia had a lot to do with it. Now I just see it as the same way I'm a bit obsessed with women's breasts - I just think it's ok to have a favourite body part! And penises are great in that they give you very obvious feedback that the other person is enjoying themselves! Also I think, because a lot of guys start out experimenting by having fairly anonymous hookups - it's easier to get straight to the point (so to speak!) with the genitals - a lot of questioning guys are not comfortable with cuddling, kissing, caressing etc. and you don't always know where your anonymous partner stands on that stuff... but everyone loves a bj right? I think when guys get more comfortable with their same-sex attraction they start to find other things they like about men... My 2c anyway!
