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I am actually shocked to see how many who talk away bisexuality on this site.

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Melanie10229, Jul 16, 2023.

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  1. Melanie10229

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    I feel like a lot of you say Well then you are gay, when someone likes one gender more than the other. If you like two genders, But only one Maybe 1 % that is still bisexuality. Homosexuals never feel sexual or romantic attraction at all. I feel like there are a lot of bierasure going on here.
     
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    I mean homosexuals never feel sexual or romantic attraction to the opposite sex at all*
     
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    I think you're seeing demons, where there is none. Many here do have ocd and such, so it's important to talk about it all. I'm bisexual myself. There is also of course biphobia too, what I've experienced, but I don't feel that there is any bierasure here.
     
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    I have ocd myself and that is why it is frustrating me because if others can enjoy having sex with the opposite sex then my proof for my ocd is not there and that stresses me.. I have worrying about being lesbian. I obsessively think about my sexuality . I lost all attraction to men now and it is terrifying
     
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    Hugs. I know OCD is something that is very frustrating. I see how many suffer from it here on the forum every day and it's heartbreaking to me. My advice would be try not to pay too much attention to what others say. Many of the experiences are unique to the person. I did question being lesbian myself, before I was aware of being trans and it's all really terrifying and overwhelming. I fully understand this. If you ever wish to talk more, then you can always PM me too.
     
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    Hi there! It's possible that because of the obsessive thoughts, how you feel or where your attractions are, is not as clear as it otherwise would be.

    If you don't mind me asking, have you had a chance to see a counselor/mental health professional?
     
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    I feel like it has confused me because of Reading the lesbian masterdoc. I don’t know now I don’t even check out guys anymore it is like I am numb all of a sudden. Even for my own bf.
    Yes I am waiting for an appointment to get therapy.
     
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