Hi I am Carla from South Africa Centurion I was happily married for many years with two children. One day we were fighting. I received a divorce letter after 3 Months. When I was a boy always wanted to be a girl. I dress and act as a girl. Now later in live I am starting to live my dream to be a girl and is busy trans gendering. I am look for girl friends who want to chit chat
Well I'm not a girl, but you can always talk to me! Welcome to EC, hope you enjoy your time here! We are a welcoming community, thanks for joining us!
Carla.....Welcome to Empty Closets! I can remember the first post that I made on EC. I was desperate for help and I got the help that night that I so needed. I hope that we can help you in the same way that I received help. The most important thing to remember about Empty Closets is that we do care about you! We're very glad that you found us here on EC and hope that we can answer questions, give you support and provide a place to vent (as long as it's not violent! ) when that becomes necessary! This is a safe community of loving, caring and very supportive people and we will do our best to help you blend into the community. *****There are 18 different sub-forums here that you can check out, join in the conversations or start your own thread/conversation. When I first joined Empty Closets I was in need of a lot of support and encouragement and I found it here…EC is a safe place. I hope that you'll find good things here too! Folks here will talk to you and share...you don't have to be afraid of asking questions...we're glad to have you! Empty Closets is all about making connections and giving LGBTQ folks a voice when they otherwise don't have one in their day-to-day lives. *****In particular you may want to check out the forum that is titled "Gender Identity and Expression”, there are people there who may have dealt with some of the same kind of issues that could be challenging you. I'm sure that you have watched trans youtubers...but just in case, here are some favorites of mine that you might like: MtF: Victoria Rose, Riley J. Dennis, Renna Williams, Robin jaspers, Gigi Gorgeous. Some info on how to navigate EC: When you have made at least 10 posts on various threads you will be able to post messages on a member's Profile Page. Just click on a member's Avatar Picture and then click on "Profile Page" in the dialogue box that pops up. You'll then be on their Profile Page and there will be a box that says: "Write Something" When you have been on EC for a few weeks and have made at least 50 posts on various forums, you can apply for Full Membership. A Full Member can send Private Messages (PM) to other Full Members and share personal contact info. Right now you can only send a PM to a Staff Member as that is always possible. Here is a quote from the Full Membership information forum: *****To be eligible you must be a member of Empty Closets for a minimum of two weeks, and have a minimum of 50 posts. These posts must be across numerous forums (Fun & Games does not contribute to post count), and consistently posted across a minimum of two weeks. You wouldn't be eligible, for example, if you registered, had no activity for two weeks, and then returned to post 50 times on your 14th day of membership. *****Well, as I said, we're very glad you found us! If you have any questions at all, you can always send me a Private Message. …..David
Hi David Good Day Thanks for welcoming me to EC I was quit surprised and shock to see that there are members with the same and even more challenges on life path than me I am sitting ever day lonely at home and is to scare go out and making new friends I am also going true a divorce which has its challenges Please advice where can ai obtain information on how to act as a women, makeup and how to come out to my family and at work Have a ownsome day
Hi Meowz Good Day Thanks for welcoming me to EC I was quit surprised and shock to see that there are members with the same and even more challenges on life path than me I am sitting ever day lonely at home and is to scare go out and making new friends I am also going true a divorce which has its challenges Please advice where can ai obtain information on how to act as a women, makeup and how to come out to my family and at work Have a ownsome day
@Carla01.....There are many people here on Empty Closets that have had a difficult time because they are part of the LGBTQ Community. I'm so sorry that you have found yourself in such a difficult position, especially with the divorce. As far as makeup, etc. goes, I think your best option is to lookup makeup tutorials on youtube. There many there, even some for MtF trans individuals. .....David
