have you ever been in love with someone straight?

Well at the moment I have a crush on this girl I know, but the problem is that I don't know her sexuality. *sigh*

 

All the time!
It's kind of nice when I have a crush on another gay guy.

 

Unfortunately, too many times already :S.

 

I was in love with my lesbian best friend for a few years....I fell in love with her at about the time I thought I was bisexual but eventually I realized I was gay however I remained in love her for a couple more years..my sexuality will make exceptions sometimes cause you can't help you fall in love with.

 

yeah. i always end up giving up anyway

 

I'm lucky enough this almost never happens to me....somehow I almost always pick lesbians, even when there's no way I could have known they were gay. There were one or two that I was never sure of one way or the other and I gave up before finding out.

 

Story of my life so far !

:tears::tears::tears: ( they're always girls )

 

*long exaggerated sigh*

 

it wasn't love just a bit of a crush on a lad I worked with when I worked for my uncle I was 17-18 at the time .

 

Yeah
Hope never again

 

Yes, unfortunately.

It's not a very pleasant experience since you know you won't be love back.

 

Yes... my girlfriend.

 

I've had crushes on straight girls (and guys, but that's not in the spirit of this thread).

I've fallen in love with a gay guy, as well, which was about as awful as crushing on a straight girl.

 

Hmmm... As someone who still doesn't have a definite meaning for love I can't say for sure. Although I do currently have someone in my mind that maybe close to what I will define as love for now. She's straight and out of my league. It stings because she'll never /reciprocate my feelings. You're are not the only one and straight crushes/love is pretty common for the LGBT. It's not always a fun experience.

 

Well... It's hard to say what I have towards this boy. It's not a crush because it's not light-hearted and playful, it's not infatuation because it's not all about sex... but some might say it's not love because the feelings aren't returned...

Whatever it is, my current never-to-be love is straight, he's been a very good friend of mine and I've been loving him for about a two years. He's straight so it hurts a lot of the time. But if there's a bright side to this, loving someone who can't love you back gives you a certain degree of empathy and respect to those who love unconditionally and unwaveringly.

 

Yup. And it never ceases to hurt.

 

It's funny, almost every girl I've been in love with has turned out to a lesbian. I haven't transitioned so it usually becomes really awkward.

 

So I told this straight girl, who is also a christian, that I have a crush on her and she totally freaked out and said some crap about it was healthier for both of us to not be friends anymore. Now she won't talk to me even if I leave messages and that was a few months ago. Can someone explain to me why?

 

Well, I had a huge crush on a straight friend years ago when I was around 18. :dry:
She was so beautiful, I couldn't resist...We had a great chemistry and there were so much indications that she had to be at least bi-curious, maybe she also had feelings for me (I mean she kissed me, got jealous when I flirted with other girls, etc.) but that story would fill pages...
So here just how it ended: She ended up getting a boyfriend again. We lost contact for a year or so, but after all we are still friends these days.

But that's how the story has gone everytime I crushed on a straight girl...
She tells me she is straight, I try flirting and stuff anyway, we end up making out pretty often, she is confused, she acts like she may be interested too, she gives me hope, but in the end she tells me again that she is straight and ends with a guy :dry:

 

I guess I was when I was a teenager but not anymore

Don't feel bad, it's the fucking nature to blame lol... if only straight people stop being the vast majority