Good news! Came out to mom.

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  1. EpicConfusion

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    I almost died of nervousness... I had tried to tell her the night before on a long drive home, but I just couldn't say it... I sat at the table talking to my mom and eating lunch. She must have noticed the look on my face as I tried to gather my courage. "What's wrong?" She said. "Nothing." I lied. JUST SAY IT BEFORE YOU LOSE YOUR NERVE! I took a deep breath, and immediately went into adrenaline mode. The world around me slowed ever so slightly. I felt detached from self and my surroundings. "Mom can I talk to you about something?" I blurted. "Sure. Is it embarrassing?" She asked noticing my beet-red face again. I just said it finally. "Mom, I think I'm gay."

    After that, she asked some questions and we talked. She was actual not caught completely off-guard as I had thought she would be... she said she had thought I was bisexual or gay for a while. She said she loved me and accepted me just how I am. I honestly could not have asked for a better reaction. It feels like a weight has been lifted off my chest.
     
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    :icon_bigg That's so AWESOME! I'm so happy for you!
     
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    Hey, that's great to hear. :slight_smile: I remember choking on the words too, but I fluffed them out eventually.

    Really pleased for you.
     
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    Well, this was inspiring. Happy to hear things worked out for you.
     
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    that's great :slight_smile: congrats
     
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    That is wonderful news Hun, I am so happy for you.. It certainly feels like a weight has been lifted off your shoulders once you do.
     
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    Omg haha I came out to my mom 2 days ago. :slight_smile:
    Congrats man!
     
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    Congrats all around mate. Glad to hear it went well. :slight_smile:
     
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    Congratulations :slight_smile:
     
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    Congratulations! (!)
     
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    I noticed you changed you "Out Status". :slight_smile: It feels good, doesn't it? :slight_smile:
     
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    It moat certainly does!
     
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    Great news! :icon_bigg
     
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    Well done!! Have a banana! (!)
     
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    Atta lad :thumbsup:
     
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    Congratulations! :slight_smile:
     
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    That is absolutely wonderful news - congratulations and well done! And well done to Mum, a perfect reaction!
     
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    Congratulations!! :icon_bigg Awesome that you came out to your mom! :icon_bigg
     
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    That is a great reaction to get, happy for you! :slight_smile:
     
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    I'm so happy for you :slight_smile:!
    This gives me the courage to come out to my mom.
    Perhaps I will do it sometime soon :slight_smile:.