I'm ready to boil over. I want to be out. But before I can be out, I want to be 100% positive about who I am. I made an appointment with a gender therapist to determine if I'm trans or if I'm possibly non-binary. Has anyone here have success with gender therapists?
I went to one in late 1985 early 1986 to start my transition. She was great and helped me find the resources that I needed.
I also started my therapy last month, so I might not be very experienced, but for what I know now is that therapy will help you for sure be more certain about yourself, but you can't be sure that a therapist will diagnose you as a trans or non-binary on first meeting (or maybe it works different in US? well, at least I was naively hoping for something like this, and also wanted to proudly come out after talking to specialist - nothing like this happened in my case, I need more time, but I felt better anyway and I think it's a good sequence of actions). But if you feel ready, then go for it Good luck!