Hi everyone , I was wondering what are your thoughts on sublimation as a way of coping with bisexuality in a monogamous heterosexual relationship? I mean at the end of the day what matters most is not being in denial right ? I slowed down weed , porn , alcohol, and i realized it was making me a bit hocd, but nevertheless I do feel a good 30% bi or trans (or both) but not enough to justify pursuing or transitioning or making any drastic change to my life according to my own boundaries , the complexity of my psyche, plus I’m in a straight relationship. I use art , sports and plethora of hobbies that I haven’t really pursued since I dug into my sexuality this past year. I have had fun , learned a lot , realized major things about our society /people /the world etc …it has been eye opening to say the least ! but it also has left me quiet depressed , ocd, isolated and mostly unproductive at the end .