We ended up getting our house appraised and then split the existing equity in it. He kept the house and I moved out. That felt fair to me even if...
Oh good, that timing sounds like it will work out better. Do you have someone supporting you through your surgery and recovery? It sucks that...
Oh man, that sucks! Sucks that she has a brain tumor. Sucks that your family is not supportive and sucks that the date didn’t work out the way...
Hi Spot. I know how insidious that feeling of shame can be. For the longest time I wasn't able to talk with people, even a therapist. It took me...
Yes, I know this feeling of a whole new world opening up to explore. Its quite exciting ,sometimes scary, sometimes fun. Enjoy! Also check out...
Kodo, man, my heart breaks for you. I’ve been following your journey here, you inspire me to be brave as I work through my own trans journey....
I don't like the process of finding a therapist, but it is worth suffering through it. I have one right now, but they're new and not experienced...
What a cute, fun haircut! When I got my hair cut short, I was surprised by how much fun I had trying out different styles and looks with the same...
I find whenever I take a step forward in experimenting, that shortly after I swing pretty hard back to questioning and doubting and wondering why...
Thanks for your answers, guys. It’s all super helpful. @BradThePug and @Kodo It helps to hear that others have felt that terror and doubt. I...
I get that feeling. I alternate between confidence (like I’m pretty confident in my answers to you in this thread) and a doubting mess, see my...
I agree with Linning, go for it!!! Gather your courage and text her. The worst that will happen is she’ll say no. But if you don’t ask, that’s...
Hi! I’m trying to figure this out too. Been on a few dates with woman, whom I really interested in. But she has mentioned she still lives with...
I finally got into see a gender therapist after months of trying. They and others recently have asked me my preferred pronouns and I get all...
Hi Chris (great name btw!) I was afraid to get my haircut too. In fact, it took my girlfriend scheduling the appointment for me to get brave...
You're so brave! Well done.
Thanks for your encouragement! This is indeed hard. Left a voicemail with another therapist. He is too busy too, but he kindly returned my call...
So after months of avoiding talking with anyone IRL about gender stuff, I finally worked up the courage to move on from my current therapist...
Hey STR, This loneliness sucks! I struggle with it too. As far as learning to be social, I feel like I'm stumbling around blindly and slowly....
Oh and it feels great to wear the binder. Like I relax into myself more. I think I'd been hoping to pass just a bit so I could see what it felt...
