To add to the confusion, since I came here and posted this the gay fantasies are more intense and frequent. When I think or fantasize about being...
Thanks It sounds like you're not confused, but see the looking at women as denial or repression? Outside it feels so 'real' I feel very attracted...
Well is it possible it’s a valid feeling? Is it possible to have legitimate moral objections to our sexu al desi res or wan tot not be led by...
I find when I am out I feel straight and look at women, but now alone at home the idea of being gay is appealing but it seems like it is just a...
Okay your status is what confused me:slight_smile:
....wow, I experience all of this... but I don't think I am gay. How do you feel about it personally if there were no other factors like family...
But you identify as gay?
Sounds like you've figured it out! And it looks like a lot of mental barriers against the idea that it looks like you're overcoming.
Good insights, thanks for sharing!
I do view it as you say here, a fetish or self fantasy. I see it getting in the way of my real life sexual interest in women, that I acknowledge...
Do you have sexual fantasies at all? If you do are they about guys or girls or both?
I didn't have an upbringing like that, but there was in high school the typical of the 90s/80s contempt for 'fags' The idea in real life is very...
How did you genuinely acknowledge it? When I am outside, it doesn't seem real and I notice beautiful women.
That makes total sense....now....but when I am in the other part of this cycle it wouldn't and it would seem ridiculous. I always like vanilla,...
I beginning to wonder if it is just the act of sex that feels good and that it is intimate with someone. I can relate to feeling good and I think...
I can't really offer any advice because I am confused too, but this is pattern is the same as mine.
Right now, I feel like its a great idea to accept being gay but I feel like I will go back into the cycle of confusion. I guess I don't believe I...
Can you explain this concept more or some resource about it. This idea I felt a strange 'click' in my head like it might be true, but I am not...
I tried to consider that for myself and it just doesnt' feel right. I get this feeling but I don't get sexually aroused. Yes, this sound...
I look at women on the street and admire their beauty and get excited about them. Sometimes at home I can fantasize about them. I can have sex...
