This can be a very powerful feeling but it has to come after some form of acceptance otherwise it can turn into powerful guilt or fear. But yes,...
Honestly I think it even happens before that. Most men I have seen here in denial or repression who even toy with accepting themselves usually...
It’s often a ‘roller coaster’ coming out and accepting yourself. Sometimes a step back, but once the genie is out o f the bottle … I have never...
Pretty deep :) but often the turn on is the right spot. @Contented gave excellent advice.
how does it feel? Don’t worry if you slip back again, but more and more you’re becoming aware of the possibility of living authentically It’s a...
Because it is a chore for a gay man to have straight sexual :) @CyberSteve88 again your path may be different but that’s what happened to me and...
Well I don’t really get aroused by women and looking back I kind of got grossed out,though I think women can look beautiful naked has always made...
Between a guy and girl? Or anal vs vagina?
My last girlfriend i had to think about a guy most of the time and could only do doggie style I guess because it was easier to imagine a guy
I understand why you feel this way, but from what I have seen, and again, my own experience, this is the last bit of the bargaining phase: "It...
It really clarifying for me to go oiut on one last date with a women who was attractive and made advances to me, I couldn’t even kiss her, i...
This sums it up. The only question is what direction but it looks like the answer is pretty clear
Once you really accept you’re gay being in bed with a woman or even trying to flirt is about as comfortable as a straight guy would be having gay...
This is excellent advice This often leads to intimacy problems in real life you have some great advice from @JT1999 and, with.the exception of...
That’s all this is about just being honest about who you are. When I really think about the attraction was never there I liked what women were...
In so much of your posts I see my own journey, the fact that you’ find it encouraging is a good sign. It sounds like you’re at the point where the...
Nothing in your post indicates to me that you’re’ gay or even bi. I see lots of natural attraction and arousal to women, and none to men. I do see...
Yes I cultivated a feeling of surrender and would repeat things like “I am gay and it’s not going away’, ‘I want this’, ‘I am gay and I want to be...
Yes this is very common before acceptance. I was stuck in this cycle for a long time. This can be a scary thought for someone not fully accepting...
This was key for me too, although I haven't found a partner yet, when I finally allowed myself to contemplate it, it felt 100x more intense than...
