I don't get the (over) use of the -phobic suffix. So is a gay man who refuses to date a woman now "heterophobic" or is he "female-phobic?" jeez. Maybe someone can just not be attracted to a transgendered person. Doesn't mean you hate someone nor does it indicate a fear of someone. Just that they aren't your sexual "cup o' tea." Isn't that what sexual freedom is about, so that you can be attracted (or not) to whomever?
It depends. If we are talking about a transgender who didn't fully transition, and has no plans too. Then you may have a point. I can admit that I will not want to be in a sexual relationship with someone like that. But I know a lot of people would. However, if a woman, for example, has fully transitioned. Genitals and all. What difference does it make? How is she different from any other woman? Aside from her past? If you fall in love in with her, and dump her simply because she was a boy in the past, then yes, you are transphobic. As for me, I would date a woman before she finishes transitioning, but only if she has plans to go all the way. And I won't hold it against anyone if they feel the same way and don't date me for that reason. As someone who currently is unsure if she will go through with a full transition or not.
I would date a trans guy, but to be honest I would really prefer if he had had HRT and had or at least was planning to have top surgery, I just wouldn't be attracted to him otherwise. If a trans person isn't fully transitioned then I don't think it's transphobic to not want to date them, it's just a matter of preference.
For me, I'd rather the person would look at me as my preferred gender and not as 'trans', but there isn't really much I can do post-op. I would for certain date a trans person.
I would have no problem dating a trans or genderqueer person. Their gender doesn't have anything to do with whether or not their the 'right' person for me.
Well... I wouldn't date a trans man even if he doesn't plan on transitioning, but I'd date a trans woman if she was post op or planning on transitioning. If she doesn't plan on transitioning... Maybe.
Of course I would. I've said it before, I'll say it again. I'm lesbian, and I date women. It doesn't matter if it's a biological woman, or a transsexual woman. What matters for me, is the heart and the soul. A girl on the inside, is a girl on the outside. What's in the pants is of no relevance for me.
No bother to me *shrugs* As long as the person is lovely and will give me cuddles, and can handle dating an author >.>;; (We run away to write without warning I have been told)
Personally, I wouldn't mind dating either a transwoman, transman or non-binary person. Everyone is beautiful, no? (Hehe, why do I sound like Pepe Le Pew?)
Yes I would. im attracted to femininity and women....so atranswomans a woman. Doesnt matter to me if she doesnt have the bottom surgery or not. She could even like it , Ive met plenty that were happy in that aspect passing in all.others.