What is your worst breakup? It can be you breaking up, or the other person. Mine is that one guy broke up with me over text, while we were in the same room.
I've never been in a real relationship, but I did fall in love with a straight girl. We were best friends for like 8 months and then she ghosted me. Nothing hurts worse than a ghosting...
My worst was an ex I had moved in with, and lived with for three months. He was nothing but a liar, a pill popper, and just wanted to destroy himself. I ended up having to walk away more for my own emotional safety. He wanted to stay friends with me, and still had an attraction to me apparently, but then up and stopped talking to me and pretty much ghosted me everywhere. As of 2013, he passed away from liver issues, due to the pill popping.
"I'm not ready for a relationship." True or not, it came out of nowhere and left no room for discussion, change, or closure. I'm more upset about that than I am that they didn't want to be here with me.
with my ex. he broke up with me right after the Valentine's Day. >.< it was my worst Valentine's Day ever, anyway. why? because I had a boyfriend, but I felt even more alone than any time I was single. he was so cold and distant that day, didn't spend it with me, and all that. next day our relationship was over. two weeks later he called me, saying he's going to kill himself. I tried to prevent him from this, called the police, and in the end, it turned out he didn't even want to do it at all and he went mad for me "ruining the rest of his life". it was two years ago and since then, we never talked again. I don't even know if he's still alive or not. I loved him, so it hurt. I got ill and ended up in the hospital. thankfully I got over him. and now, someone I was pretty open for just said he'd only want to fuck me and I shouldn't expect anything else because he doesn't fall for guys. I was more into friendship than anything else, and never ever thought of having sex with him at all, so it also hurt. but at least I'm in a happy relationship with my long time best friend. seems that he's the perfect match, and it's been one year and a half, if I count well.
Today. My boyfriend tried to cheat on me after we just had a talk the day before where I gave him another chance after lying to me about his feelings for a guy and he promised to stay committed to me and we had a whole talk about trust and honesty. I feel so betrayed. It's so hard. The first love is the hardest to get over, they say. Just, ugh.
My most upsetting breakup was in 2010, when I was living with a guy for 5 months. Our relationship was a little rocky from the get-go but we somehow managed to stay together for 5 months. Well, I was paying rent, I was buying groceries and I bought a laptop too, which I later found out that he'd been watching porn when I was at work (He maybe worked for a month in the short relationship). I gave him so much. When he wanted sex, I never said no. Even when I was on my period, I'd give him a handjob or blowjob and keep him happy. One afternoon I got home from work and he wasn't there (We lived on the same property as his grandparents). I went to them and asked if they knew where he was. His grandmother said some girl came to pick him up. (OK, so by this time, I was LIVID). I got on the phone and asked him where the hell he was. He said he's just waiting for her to finish horseriding (OR was she riding HIM?). Anyway, about 20 minutes after the call ended, she came to drop him off. I was polite, I made her a cup of coffee and we talked briefly. Then one Sunday morning following this incident, I went through his phone whilst he was showering. I came across texts with nudes from girls and also found the dating app through which we met still installed on his phone, after we agreed to remove it shortly after moving in together... I patiently waited for him to get out of the shower and then I just exploded. I told him that I'm sick of his lies and this was the last straw. I took the dog that WE adopted into my car and left. I went to fetch my stuff later that day and that was the end of it. That was probably my worst breakup because I put so much into the relationship, even though it was still new, only to be cheated on and lied to like that. I don't know what happened to his sorry ass after I'd moved out but I didn't care. He's a selfish, lying, sorry excuse for a man. I saw him near my work a couple of times after and he waved at me. The cheek! I will never forget what he'd done to me. It ruined love for me, and none of my relationships after that one worked out. So technically I've been single for nearly a decade... Sad.
My worst one was with my only and last same sex relationship i had, about almost 10years ago in college. We were both closeted and have the same group of friends (which composed of straight guys and girls). We were friends before we fell in love. Nobody knew about our relationship and my exgirlfriend would always be teased to our guy friends. She was so likeable so I always get jealous when I see others making those small gestures that were so obvious that they liked her. Anyway, both of us knew what we had wasnt going to last as we both came from traditional conservative culture that are ok with other people being gay but not if it's within the family. Since they thought she was single, she was introduced to a guy which eventually became her boyfriend. Before she started dating that guy, we broke up and I had accepted that we cant really be together anyways and was even supportive at first for her that she found the one but when she brought the guy where we were hanging out with our friends and introduced him to us, I was so hurt I had to walked out discreetly as nobody knew we were together. I was so miserable during those time, I cant remember how I survived. I did stupid things that hurt both of us and at some point had to cut off anything that would remind me of or communicate with her. Our friendship was destroyed. Past forward to present time, guess what, after all those heartaches, me and my exgirlfriend are good friends now and still communicates. She married the guy and have 2 kids now and I see them once in a while when they are around the area where I live. Time does heal all wounds I guess
It's really amazing what we can do for love.. all the sacrifices that we do, and not even looking at it as a sacrifice coz we love so much. Hopefully along our life, it is true that there is really someone out there for us. The one that is destined for all of us.
My ex was emotionally abusive. They ended up calling the cops on me multiple times, saying that they feared for their life. They even called the police when I was at work. When we broke up, they kicked me out of the house overnight and I ended up living in a hotel for a month and a half. At the end of it all, I'm better off, but it was still a total mess at the time.
I made friends with a stray cat and it decided to wonder away somewhere else. That was a harder loss to me than being dumped through a text message on Xmas day no less. I don't want to take care of things anymore.
