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You ever been caught looking

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by theamos13, May 8, 2018.

  1. Totesgaybrah

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    I’m pretty good at not being obvious when checking someone out, so I haven’t been caught too many times that I can think of.

    One time I can remember was when I was in 7th grade and we were all lined up at the end of the day to get on the busses.
    There was a guy in the line next to me and I was totally zoned out looking at his crotch lol.

    He said something like wtf are you looking at? Internally I was like omg noooo! I ended up just saying I was thinking about something and didn’t realize where I was looking.

    It was fine and we later became friends for awhile.
     
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    So I guess saying you were looking at his big package was out of the question
     
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    Yes, I am being caught. The first time was really embarassing, because I didn't know that I could check out a woman like that and friends laughed at me. Difficult to hide when you not only are a homo but also behave and dress like the opposite sex.
     
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    Haha definitely out of the question at the time. It was definitely very visible through his pants I can tell you that.
    Potent stuff too! Guy has like 6 kids now lol
     
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    I remember once seeing a friend of mine change and he was very well equipped. I’ve been thinking about it ever since. It’s been over 30 years.
     
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    Since nearly everyone who said, yes, is male, I'm going to jump to the conclusion that women can look at women without it seeming strange. I guess we have an advantage. Ha ha. (My friend who I have a crush on did comment about the way I looked at her once. She told me no one had ever looked at her like that before. I took it as a complement. She still doesn't want me though, dammit.)