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You and your trigger crush: Passive or assertive?

Discussion in 'LGBT Later in Life' started by PlaidGlove, Nov 19, 2015.

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  1. driedroses

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    You caught me red-handed. :lol:
     
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    Yes, I'm kinda good at that…… :wink:
     
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    Okay, stop, you two. I'm getting jealous.
     
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    We can't have that. I'll stop for you. :wink:
     
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    Rats. I thought the drama was just about to start.
     
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    I'm not a fan of drama. Trouble, yes. I know when to stop. :slight_smile:
     
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    Mellieeeee! Come baaaaaaack!!! :tears:
     
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    Drama? I was waiting for the threesome to start! :grin:
     
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    Would it be bad to admit that I might have had the same idea? :lol:
     
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    I'm here, darlin'!!! :kiss:

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    Lesbi-honest here, I'm way too much of an attention whore for that shit. :icon_bigg

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    (You know I was playing, right?)
     
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    (LOL we're getting both almost threesomes and drama-not-drama in one thread. This is epic derailment!! :grin:)
     
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    I'm just in this thread to have fun. Whatever form that takes! :icon_redf Not taking anything personally, no worries. :slight_smile:
     
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    Saaaaame.

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    Really's the REAL trouble maker here. The one that sits in the corner while the gas leaks from the stove as someone's going to light their cigarette.

    I love it.
     
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    And it all started so innocently! :grin:
     
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    Isn't that the way? :icon_bigg
     
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    This is your thread, kiddo. You're in charge. (Despite mellie having everyone wrapped around her little finger.)

    @yeahpidk. I've got no idea what you're talking about. Open a window if you need some air.
     
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    Who? Me? Nah...
     
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    Wonderful! In that case you'll have no qualms about returning to the topic, especially now that we have established your online capacity for assertiveness. :wink:

    (and @driedroses, you're in a lot of trouble later… :wink: )
     
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    Ok, ok. But first. Do wisecracks equate to assertiveness? I suspect the anonymity has liberated this online persona.

    Back to the original question. My answer will be somewhat different than most as I haven't had a trigger crush nor been in a relationship with a man. Not even close. Zero interest. I know! Based on that alone, what the hell took me so long? I digress.

    I can only imagine what I'd be like when relating to a woman and I've thought about it a bit. I think it will be a bit of a moving target. While I'm getting my footing in this new world, I think I'd be happy to be the passive one to start with but can also picture myself not being like that forever. I have a new found confidence, that actually began before all this, that I can picture not letting me be happy to just sit around and wait for something to happen.

    I'm not sure which aspect of a relationship we're actually talking about. Initiating dates, handholding, sex? I feel I will have varying degrees of assertiveness with each of these. (Despite what my current potty mouth indicates.)

    So, in conclusion, I have no flippin' clue. May I go back to being a smart aleck, now?
     
    #99 Really, Nov 24, 2015
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    Absolutely! You are all adorable, and I feel like I'm with my high school friends. Sexual innuendo was our specialty!
     
    #100 bi2me, Nov 25, 2015
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