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Would you date someone who was genderqueer or didn't like any particular label?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Wuggums47, Jun 12, 2014.

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Would you date a genderqueer person?

  1. I am a trans woman and I would

    7 vote(s)
    13.7%
  2. I am a trans woman and I wouldn't

    0 vote(s)
    0.0%
  3. I am a trans man and I would

    6 vote(s)
    11.8%
  4. I am a trans man and I wouldn't

    1 vote(s)
    2.0%
  5. I am a cis woman and I would

    8 vote(s)
    15.7%
  6. I am genderqueer, non binary, or something else and I would

    14 vote(s)
    27.5%
  7. I am genderqueer, non binary, or something else and I wouldn't

    1 vote(s)
    2.0%
  8. I wouldn't date anyone ever

    1 vote(s)
    2.0%
  9. Other

    13 vote(s)
    25.5%
  1. AwesomGaytheist

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    You forgot to put "I am a cis man" as one of the options.

    But to answer the question, no probably not.
     
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    I like guys, regardless of their birth gender.
     
  4. Oddish

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    Of course.
     
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    Definitely. If I'm attracted to someone, I don't see why I wouldn't.
     
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    Aye.
     
  7. Fallingdown7

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    Yes, if they were FAAB. I would still respect their pronouns too.

    Technically, I'm 'genderqueer' but I can't bring myself to identify that way because I feel it would be even harder to find someone.
     
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    yeah I would
     
  9. Yeah I would, were I not already in a relationship. I'm attracted to a lot of people.
     
  10. Z3ni

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    If they would like to date me, of course.
     
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    You missed "cis male" - although frankly I'm not sure what others describe me as (I'm often incorrectly sexed when the beard is cut off).

    I find particular personalities attractive, not genders. If your personality is something I find attractive, for whatever reason, I would be more than willing to enter a relationship with said person.
     
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    Yes, if I am attracted to them and like their personality.
     
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    I would as long they're male in sex as that's what my sexuality is based on really.
     
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    Absolutely! I tend to be most attracted to people who have some balance of masculine and feminine traits anyways.
     
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    I see no reason not to. So yes.

    It would probably be best if they were biologically female. But hey who knows it may work even if they aren't.
     
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    absofuckinglutely.
     
  17. Jay47

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    I sure hope people would, otherwise I'll turn into a crazy cat lady. I *would* wear more traditionally female clothing to make a gal feel more comfortable if I loved her, but I wouldn't change my personality.
    I think the people who are answering no as a definite thing aren't thinking about how one person might change everything for them.

    ---------- Post added 12th Jun 2014 at 09:51 PM ----------

    That's why I put female/genderqueer on here. I still go by female pronouns, But identify more as neither or male.
     
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    Lol, this forced me to vote "other" because I totally would. As each day passes I am more attracted to a person's trust in their own sense of self. And I'd have to mention that I like both male and female traits (comes with the territory of being polysexual I guess) and it would likely be very refreshing.
     
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  19. Wuggums47

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    Is there any way to show this to a mod and ask them to fix and reset the poll?
     
  20. An Gentleman

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    Seems pretty unlikely, considering most of my political stances in general. Besides, me dating anyone at all seems pretty unlikely. I suppose someone being a GQ is something I could get past, but if they're asking me to use any pronoun besides he, she, or they, it's a deal breaker.