Who's virgin who's not?

i'm still one and i'm about to turn 18 :\

 

Not a virgin.

 

Same here.

 

16 here and still a virgin... yay...... not.

 

I'm a born again virgin. And again, and again, and again…

 

I have nothing much to add here (I'm still as virgin as I first posted here myself, should you be wondering)... but I just noticed that this thread is just going to make it to it's 5th anniversary :eek:

 

5 years old and it's still one of my least favourite threads on EC. It ties quite well with virginity being one of my least favourite social constructs.

 

No... but to be honest, it would've been nice to lose my virginity to a woman, than a man. Although I'm sure if that had happened, my parents would have been less likely to believe how I know that I'm gay.

 

I am still a virgin!
its like :starwars:

 

Okay, I don't really understand all this virginity stuff. What does it change if someone is a virgin or not? Well okay, it means that the person hasn't had sex with anyone. But what should matter the most is who they have sex with, not whether they have had any, no?

There are at least two different ideas of this:

1) Everyone needs to have sex. It's one of the things that humans just do. And if they haven't had sex for a while, it's very hard for them. I went to New York City once, and my friend's boyfriend was asking if I have a boyfriend, and when I told him no, hi asked if I am at least sleeping with anyone. And when I told him no, to that one as well, he was very shocked and didn't understand how I can live like this. (Then he started asking whether I am a lesbian, but fortunately my friend walked in just at the right time.) But hey, sex is not like oxygen, people can live without it!

2) Sex belongs to marriage. I know a lot of people who are nearly thirty and haven't had sex, because they want to be virgin when they marry and I respect them for that. I am not and I am not in anyway a better person than they are.

I just don't understand this whole point of "losing virginity". I don't feel a need to sleep with randoms or a think that I'm going to die because haven't had sex for years. Sex is for adults and "losing virginity" is not a competition or a game. The right person will come along at some point and at that point it doesn't matter if you're a virgin.

 

I completely agree Sadepeura and I'm not going to loose my virginity until I find someone I truly appreciate and care about. I'm sad I'm a virgin sometimes, but I don't want to rush it.

 

I'm a virgin, which I'm proud of. Quite a lot of people my age in my school have lost their virginities are having sex pretty much every weekend. I want to wait till I find that special someone

 

Still a virgin...

 

still a virgin.........kind of sad.

 

I'm sooo very not virgin

 

i'm just 17. and yup i'm virgin

 

I dunno if I am or not haha

But I consider myself one until me and my man are together.

 

Happy 5th anniversary thread!
Yup, still a virgin! :lol:

 

19 (as I think it says to the left), and still a virgin in every conceivable sense of the word... unless porn counts against virginity... yeah. Used to intend to remain a virgin until marriage, but that's really not in my moral code anymore. Perhaps in a year I won't be, but I won't be rushing to get rid of it, that's for sure.

Random: "Kissed a Girl" just came up on shuffle :lol:

 

as i considered myself straight but wasn't that much into girls, yep, i'm still a virgin

but now that i'm ok with being gay, i assume i won't have to wait too long now

i'm not ashamed of being a virgin at 22, as i just accepted being gay. if i had made it before, it could have been great i'm sure, but it would've been with a girl...