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What's the appeal of nudes?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by MrSecret, Jun 19, 2015.

  1. kataracts

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    They make me feel close to my long distance girlfriend.
     
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    Some people like it out in the open, some people like it a little revealed but clothes, some people like to be completely covered, and some people don't like it at all. I personally wouldn't complain if a significant other showed me some, though I do find it annoying when people randomly send me nudes. X_X Like, put on some clothes bro!
     
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    I think that's something best shared between two people seeing each other. It's hot when it's more intimate. I like being teased. It's a huge turn on when I have to work for it. I guess "earn" it in a way. And best believe I'd make you work for it :lol:

    If I had just started talking to a girl and she was like "oh, by the way... here's me naked" I'd find it as a huge turn off.

    It's kinda like being a kid and your best friend has a lollipop. Do you want the lollipop? Yes. But your friend spent half of recess letting all the other kids lick the lollipop. Your friend comes up to you wanting to share it. No! Everyone else has had that in their mouth, dirty.

    I'd rather watch porn than look at nudes. I'd rather have sex than watch porn. You get the idea.
     
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    LMAO! Omg you're hilarious! That's classic! :lol:
     
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    This body...

    Is in-person only. There is no keepsake, only the burning passion to intoxicate yourself on my intimacy, to remember.

    ^.~
     
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    I like art of two men together and penis art.
     
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    My appreciation of nude images has primarily been as an artistic resource, because I used to do a fair bit of life drawing. Whilst I was good at it it still took me a long time (as in, a few hours) to get finished, so selecting photos of nudes and drawing those at home was a much easier reference than models in a class. The more 'casual' nude images were better for this I found, rather than those where the model(s) were obviously posing in a sexualised way - surprisingly hard to find in the age of porn.

    As for myself; whilst I do feel more comfortable hanging around indoors in my birthday suit, there is no way in hell I'm letting said attire get committed to film! Even in the scenario of just sharing it with someone I really trusted (or indeed, just keeping it to myself) there still exists the possibility of it somehow falling into the wrong hands. I'm not having that. I'm like an oddly prudish nudist. :lol:

    If I may offer a word to the wise, if you ever wish to take a nude/semi-nude pic of yourself but are selective about who sees it, it's best to make sure that any device or memory card it is stored on will remain in your/trusted other's possession for the entirety of it's functional life. Even if the file has been erased it is sometimes still possible for it to be retrieved.
    When I need a memory card for my phone I nearly always buy a used one because it is cheaper, and also I discovered it's a fun and random way to discover new music I might not have heard before, as sometimes it turns out it hasn't been formatted and there are still tracks left on there, which serves as a taster (I have gotten into a few artists this way that I might not have heard otherwise). Then last year I had a problem with my cards getting repeatedly corrupted which turned out to be due to a crappy usb reader, so I got some software to try and retrieve my lost data. But the thing is, because I use second-hand cards the program also retrieved some erased files from the previous owner; including - you guessed it - nude selfies. Now I'd assume the person who took these probably didn't want some random stranger looking at her body parts, so out of respect I of course deleted them. But it just goes to show, once something is created it's hard to get rid of.
     
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    The OP gets it.

    Men in their underwear are often much more sexier to me than men that are fully nude.

    A penis is just ruins it.

    I mean, when I'm "in the moment", I probably wouldn't give a sh*t, but a penis is just a tool used for sex and it is not nice-looking... at all.

    IMO, of course.
     
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    Huh, and here I was thinking this was going to be a discussion about the value and merit of artistic nude photography... Instead it's about dick pics.... Oh well!
     
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    I only find nudes appropriate when I find the other person attractive, which I assume is what most people are like to be honest...

    I received one not too long ago, the very first one I ever received actually and my gosh I wish I never had! I genuinely felt bilious, as the culprit just was not my type at all. Maybe I'm just weird I dunno...but I do know I don't want someone I just met to send me nudes ever again. And I probably would never send one either unless it was someone I had utmost trust in.
     
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    I agree with the "underwear can be sexier" comments :grin:
     
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    don't get me wrong I like guys in the nude but sending nude picks to friends or strangers I dont get that at all .
     
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    Theres a feeling of like doing something "dangerous, exciting, and cool."
     
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    I'm turned OFF by pictures of a naked body.
    Sorry to offend, but it does absolutely nothing for me.
     
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    Also to add, nudes honestly aren't bad if it's sent between a trusting couple on sites or apps like Snapchat where the photo expires.

    Also, calling people sluts because they send nudes honestly makes no sense to me.