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What Turns You On Most About Guys/Girls/Other

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by infectiousyouth, Feb 8, 2015.

  1. xylaz

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    It ranges from the stereotypical masculine man or feminine woman, but the drag and avante-garde scene has always fascinated me in large part because it's so taboo and whimsical. I love it when a man dresses up in over-the-top dresses, make-up, and flashy hair and acts bold and flamboyant like a girl "desperate for attention". And vice-versa when a woman dons classy clothing, exerts her elegance, but has a "top-bitch" aura smoking a cigar with butch men catering to her. These are exaggerated images of what I find truly exciting. I love everything unconventional and the androgynous side to gender is endlessly stimulating.(!)
     
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    I actually couldn't think of anything when I first saw this thread.

    I've come to the conclusion that when a guy can show emotions and not be so macho. That's probably it.

    Psychically I find everything about the male body attractive. Nothing stands out enought to say it's the major turn on.
     
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    how they act toward me, and kindness for guys, for girls same but some other things too :wink:
     
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    Nice lips is the number one thing.
     
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    Intelligence, curiosity, opinionated, piercing eyes
    nice legs and hips and a great smile :slight_smile:
     
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    Soft skin so I can make a skin suit.

    Oh yeah and nice legs.
     
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    A genuine smile ... not a McDonald's smile, a real, honest smile. Also, someone who can let go and really laugh.

    I often like a bit of an attitude ... "feisty", yes, that's the word I'm looking for ... but shy people can be cute, too, especially when you can watch them open up.

    I appreciate good looks, too, but I've found that with age my definition of good-looking and the variety of features I can appreciate has expanded considerably.
     
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    well, physically, someone tall with a great posture :icon_redf specially one with broad shoulders and a nice chest :"> just masculinity in general.. and of course a really sweet smile :icon_redf

    but really, what usually turns me on is the character.. a very confident man who is caring, sweet, and should i say a gentleman? though i'm a man myself :lol: and i like a man who looks at things in a mature and positive way :slight_smile:

    :thewave:
     
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    Physically, eyes and hands for me, but I'm usually more into personality - Someone sweet when it matters, but who knows how to be an ass when joking around (because who doesn't love a great sense of humor?), and someone who is willing to support my self decisions, even when they don't always agree with them, and who I feel comfortable talking to about things I'd never tell anyone else. :3
     
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    Beautiful eyes, charming and playful personality, intelligence.
     
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    Huggy and a nice touch, intelligence, as well a geek. Being open minded and curious helps. This applies to any gender.
     
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    I like slim guys with a nice ass.
     
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    Her cute voice and adorable grey/blue eyes! I love her laugh and shes so cute when things are awkward! Such a chatterbox but always entertaining! Not to mention her body is so.. Ugh! Yum!!! Just want to eat her up :wink: and out x

    She's also very feminine in the mature yet silly way! Sooo cute! And she has very similar interests to me! So glad I met her! xx
     
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    For me it's the award winning smile :slight_smile: and confidence but not arrogance
     
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    It's nice to be honest :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:, unlike those kind of answers: "sense of humour and intelligent soul" 0_0.

    Lol seriously though, lots of things can turn me on:

    * bad girls (not wh@res, but "bad" - like fighters literally or figuratively...criminals if you will :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:, rebellion type of girls).

    * Not gonna lie: beautiful sexy face + shorter but not too short hair.

    * Some Languages + some accents.

    This for now...don't want to come of as too picky.
     
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    What I love in a guy:
    Humor
    Compassion
    Blue eyes or Green eyes
    cuddler

    What I hate in a guy:
    doucheyness
    muscles and abs (for some reason they are a big turn off for me)
    Guys who lift up their shirt in a picture
    Duckface
    Tall guys
    Long hair
     
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    I don't know anymore. It surprises me every time.
     
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    Hair and smile is what I find most beautiful. I also like someone who is funny and easy to make laugh. Also, if she isn't nice or she acts like a whore then she can be the most beautiful or sexy girl and I will just not be remotely attracted to her anymore
     
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    Stocky, hairy, gingers
     
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    a nice smile and an active brain are 2 of the most sexy things a person can have. other than that, a cute butt, nice body, little body hair for guys (and ladies :lol), must be a pleasant person to be around.