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What traits or qualities do you wish you had more of?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by RayXxx, Jun 18, 2014.

  1. TheStudent

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    More motivated and focused because I have zero motivation in life and I generally live my life by the golden rule of "If at first you don't succeed just give up and let somebody else do it because it's not meant for you"
     
  2. Aquilo

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    Ability to have small with people other than those people who I know really well and really like. Being able to enjoy that small talk.

    Discipline. Working on it and making great leaps forward. :icon_bigg

    Less arrogance and more confidence.. also working on it.

    Health.

    Already gained courage last years. : )
     
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    Better: time management

    eating habits

    patience
     
  4. Jay47

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    I wish I trusted people more. And made better decisions in the first place.
     
  5. OneProblem

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    I wish I had more confidence so I wouldn't be scared to do anything and everyone but that's just me. I also wish I had a better voice so I could make better Youtube videos but I think that's just because I'm boring :I
     
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    You know the thing in your head that tells you to think before you speak? I don't have that! Seriously, I say whatever's on my mind no matter how rude or hurtful it can be, I need to stop that.

    Also, whenever I start something recreational, I hardly ever stay focused and stray onto something else. One of the cons of being a Gemini, apparently.
     
  7. Cass

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    I too wish I was more confident in myself
    I wish I had more self worth
    And I wish I didn't always put others first. I mean, sometimes I need to take care of myself first, but I can't without feeling guilty
     
  8. Owl333

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    Maturity, confidence and emotional control.
     
  9. twosoups

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    I wish I had more of an ability to inspire, coach, and motivate others. I try, but I less successful than I would like to be.
     
  10. Toast8971

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    I wish I was better at talking to people in real life. I mean I'm not shy or anything I just have to wait for someone else to start the conversation
     
  11. justjade

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    It's not so much what I wish I had more of. It's what I wish I had less of. I want less fear. I want to care less what people think. That needs to be broken down before I can gain confidence, which is what I want.
     
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    A more calm mind...
     
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    I wish I could be more confident and believe in myself a bit more. Also, I should be more patient and tolerant to other people and accept that not everyone can be the same. Also... determination to lose weight. I just can't make myself (not) do things.
     
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    Confidence. I don't know how to explain it, but I have terrible anxiety and I hate myself, and...yeah. Confidence. :slight_smile: