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What is your favorite thing about being gay?

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  1. Spaceface

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    My favorite thing about being bi is that I can do whatever I want in bed to another guy and have no pregnancy scare! :grin:
     
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    Spaceface....Hey, welcome to empty closets! My favorite thing about being gay? Accepting myself for who I really am. Finally being able to love and understand myself. I went for many years hating myself...since I finally accepted that I am and always have been gay I am so much happier than I have ever been before!! ....David
     
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    Thanks, and it's really nice that you have been able to accept your sexuality. :slight_smile:
     
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    Spaceface....Thanks much!
     
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    *No pregnancies
    *Lots of straight marketing techniques don't work
    *I'm not quite sure how straight dating works, but its nice being able to be the guy that gets treated (he pays, gives you his jacket etc) AND being able to be cutesy (gives him your jacket etc) depending on the moment.
     
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    You're apart of a whole new community. Granted, it's not perfect...but it is one of a kind. As an affiliate of this community you can - almost instantly - share a connection or bond with others from another part of the world; hence this site. We have our own lingo, network, movement, clubs, flags, issues, and parades. That's something to take pride in.
     
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    Not dating men. Being gay kind of sucks, but being forced to date guys sucks even more.
     
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    When I was younger I was quite sad that my breasts were so small... But then realised since I like girls I still get to play with boobs of all different sizes!
     
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    Nice! :smile:
     
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    Guys are hot.

    Also the LGBT community is amazing
     
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    Favorite part about being bi? Well I'm statistically much more likely to find any random stranger hot then most people. Makes doing just about anything more interesting when that's the case. Also the puns. So many puns. I can't keep them all straight.
     
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    No pregnancy risk
    No dealing with toxic masculinity or hetero double standards
    Ladies are way more attractive looking than men
     
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    Might sound weird, but I don’t have a favorite thing about being gay. It’s just a small part of who I am, so I don’t think about it much anymore. I suppose being gay has its perks, but I don’t know if those perks are my favorite part of being gay or not.
     
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    Knowing I have another choice other than celibacy or dating men. Also I love rainbows and rainbow coloured anything is pretty gay.
     
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    No pregnancy concerns, men, yeah.
     
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    loving men, not needing to worry about pregnancy scares, and not having to buy a stupidly expensive engagement ring.
     
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    My favorite part is probably the community element. We travel a fair amount and everywhere we go we are able to find "our people," given that these are generally people we've never actually met before I think that's pretty awesome. I love how LGBT people sort of look out for each other and welcome each other in. I know this isn't everyone's experience but it has consistently been my experience for the last twenty-five years.
     
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    Other than getting to like guys, my biggest plus is that I'm freed of the expectation to be married and settled with kids by a certain age. I've always felt that society places a great deal of emphasis on young people getting hitched as soon as they're out of college and start families. Not to say that I don't want a family of my own at some point, but I feel that being gay takes some of that pressure off me.
     
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    Not having to abide by society's draconian standards of gender expression.
     
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    I feel so awake and... alive. I understand what it's like to be in a minority group, which is something that I wouldn't be able to understand if I was straight.